Pegging is a sexual practice that complements the rainbow of possibilities for fun under the sheets... or elsewhere! The expression refers to the act of a person with a clitoris penetrating anally a person with a penis.
Rest assured, this is only the purely stricto sensus definition of the term! Of course, the joys of pleasure for two remain accessible to all and can be endlessly varied. It's not a label that's going to hold us back from our desires, is it?
Pegging: a different approach to anal pleasure
Anatomically speaking, a person with a clitoris does not have the ability to penetrate a partner. This fact can be somewhat frustrating when questioning what sensations it might provide. It's true, who hasn't wondered what it would be like to be in the body of the opposite sex? What do they feel exactly?
Pegging partially answers this strange existential question. What is certain is that the practice disrupts the "codes" of pleasure for two. We break away from the pattern of the person with a clitoris being penetrated, and the person with a penis penetrating, to discover new sensations and a different but terribly intense pleasure! When we talk about pleasure for people with a clitoris, we often mention the G zone. For people with a penis, this zone also exists, called point P. P for prostate, which, once stimulated through pegging or otherwise, can provide very intense pleasure. An experience not to be missed!
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How to integrate pegging into your couple's games?
Although taboos regarding sexuality are no longer set in stone and are gradually deconstructed, some subjects remain complex to address at times!
And even if we say that it's enough to talk about it and de-dramatize the subject, it's actually more complex than slipping a simple "Darling, I'd like to wear a harness and penetrate you" between the cheese and dessert. I deliberately exaggerate to emphasize the importance of taking your time to integrate new practices into the couple's sexual life.
Check that your partner is intrigued by the idea!
My first advice is to test your partner's receptivity on the subject! Whether they are familiar with pegging or not, take the time to discuss the practice together. It's an excellent way to avoid misunderstandings. What you desire is thus clearly understood by your partner.
Taking the time to provide necessary explanations
If your partner is apprehensive, you can offer them details on how to avoid pain if that is a concern, for example. Clarifying points of doubt can be reassuring before venturing into the unknown. Of course, we must not forget that consent takes precedence over everything else! If for some reason your partner is not comfortable with the idea, it's time to put the question on hold. You might have the opportunity to discuss it again later.
Discussing desires in detail and setting boundaries
If, on the other hand, the idea is taking root in your partner's mind, don't hesitate to discuss it in detail! What might make you anxious about trying pegging? What do you desire? Which position seems ideal to start with? How will you prepare for the practice? Because yes, like any form of anal pleasure, pegging requires a minimum of preparation!
Don't hesitate to also set boundaries in advance. You can also choose a safe word in advance. That is, a word that will request your partner to immediately stop the current practice for a reason personal to you!
Choosing simple positions to start
And if you are not inspired by the choice of positions best suited to trying the joys of pegging, I advise you to opt for a sitting position or a "doggy style" position. This will allow the penetrated person to control the pace and movement... more reassuring when starting out, and therefore more enjoyable too!
Equipping yourself well for pegging
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