Pegging is a sexual practice that adds to the rainbow of possibilities when it comes to fun between the sheets... gold elsewhere! The term refers to the act, for a person with a clitoris, of anally penetrating a person with a penis.
Rest assured, this is purely the stricto sensu definition of the term! Of course, the joys of pleasure for two remain accessible to everyone, and can be adapted in endless ways. It's not as if a label is going to hold back our desires, is it?
Pegging: a different approach to anal pleasure
Anatomically speaking, a person with a clitoris does not have the ability to penetrate a partner... A realisation that can prove somewhat frustrating when one wonders about the sensations it might produce. It's true — who has never wondered what it would feel like to be in the body of the opposite sex? What do they actually feel?
Pegging helps to partly answer this funny existential question. What is certain is that the practice shakes up the "codes" of shared pleasure. We break away from the pattern of the person with a clitoris being penetrated, and the person with a penis penetrating, to discover new sensations, and a different but intensely pleasurable experience! When talking about pleasure for people with a clitoris, we often mention the G-spot. For people with a penis, this zone also exists — it's called the P-spot. P for prostate, which, once stimulated through pegging gold otherwise, can provide very intense pleasure... An experience not to be missed!
We can therefore thank the toy industry for thinking of everything for everyone's pleasure. A wide range of toys is available to delight our curiosity! 🔥
How to incorporate pegging into your couple's play?
Although sexual taboos are no longer set in stone and are gradually being deconstructed, some subjects can still be complex to broach at times!
And even if we tell ourselves that it's enough to just talk about it and take the drama out of the subject, it's actually more complex than slipping a simple "Darling, I'd like to put on a harness and penetrate you" between the cheese and dessert. I'm deliberately exaggerating to emphasise the importance of taking your time when integrating new practices into a couple's sex life.
Check that your partner is won over by the idea!
My first piece of advice is to test your partner's receptiveness to the subject! Whether they know about pegging or not, take the time to discuss the practice together. It's an excellent way to avoid misunderstandings... What you fancy is thus clearly understood by your other half.
Taking the time to provide the necessary explanations
If your partner is apprehensive, you can clarify how to go about it to avoid any pain, if that's what worries them for example. Clearing up points of doubt can be reassuring before venturing into the unknown. Of course, let's not forget that consent takes precedence over everything else! If for whatever reason your partner is not comfortable with the idea, it's time to put the question on standby. You may have the opportunity to revisit it later.
Discussing desires in detail and setting boundaries
If, on the other hand, the idea starts to take shape in your partner's mind, don't hesitate to discuss it in detail! What might make you anxious about trying pegging? What do you fancy? Which position seems ideal for starting out? How will you prepare for the practice? Because yes, like any form of anal pleasure, pegging requires a minimum of preparation!
Don't hesitate to also set boundaries in advance. You can also choose a safe word ahead of time. That is, a word that will ask your partner to immediately stop the current activity for a reason that is personal to you!
Choosing simple positions to start with
And if you're not inspired when it comes to choosing the most suitable positions to try out the joys of pegging, I'd advise opting for a seated position gold a "doggy style" position. This will allow the penetrated person to control the rhythm and movement... more reassuring when you're just starting out, and therefore more enjoyable too!
Getting the right equipment for pegging
Let's get straight to the point... You want to dive in but aren't quite sure which toy to turn to — no worries, follow the guide!
Among the treasure trove of toys for grown-ups, you have the option of choosing:
- A non-vibrating strap-on: ideal for those who prefer to avoid harnesses while enjoying new sensations. Very simple to use, just insert the small egg of the strap-on into the vagina and start playing. The advantage is that the shape of the toy is specially designed for excellent hold... No risk of losing the toy in the middle of your session!
Ready to take the plunge?
