Anal sex toy

What is an anal sex toy?

Anal sex toys are, as their name suggests, designed to stimulate the anal area. What do they have in common? They all feature a flat base, wider than the toy itself, which acts as a "stopper" and prevents the sex toy from being absorbed by the rectum during insertion.

What are anal sex toys for?

To have fun! Whether used alone, or as a complement to another type of stimulation, anal sex toys are there to make you feel good! They can also be used before penetration, to facilitate the dilation of the sphincters (i.e. the muscles that surround the rectal canal).

Can you really experience pleasure from the anal area?

The entire anal area is extremely sensitive and can generate a great deal of pleasure when stimulated with gentleness and patience. One can distinguish: the peri-anal area, the anus, the rectal canal, and the rectum. Each of these areas holds genuine interest and responds to stimulation. Indeed, the entire anal area is highly innervated and rich in sensory receptors. Moreover, certain erogenous zones are easier to stimulate via this route.

What are the erogenous zones on the anal side?

• the prostate: this small gland, responsible for producing seminal fluid, is often referred to as "the male G-spot". To stimulate it, penetrating sex toys that are fairly short and slightly curved are preferred.
• the deep-spot: this sensitive area is located right at the back of the vagina. Anatomically speaking, the recto-vaginal wall is very thin, and anal penetration allows the deep-spot to be stimulated very easily. In this case, penetrating sex toys with an insertable length of at least 12cm are preferred.

What are the different types of anal sex toys?

• the plug: the most common type, the plug is perfect for getting started with anal play, and will suit both beginners and the more experienced alike. It is characterised by its oblong shape (ensuring progressive penetration), a very narrow neck, and a base. The idea is to insert the plug and then leave it in place while engaging in other activities. It can also be used to facilitate dilation ahead of penetration.
• the anal bead string: also known as "Thai beads", anal bead strings are made up of a series of connected balls. Simply insert each ball progressively, then gently remove them as the orgasm begins to build. The goal? To amplify sensations!
• the dildo: the anal dildo is a phallic-shaped toy, featuring a flat base and often a suction cup. It stimulates the anal area through dilation and friction, from the anal entrance to the first third of the rectum. With a dildo, go for back-and-forth movements!
• the prostate stimulator: it is recognised by its distinctive shape. Short (5 to 10cm insertable length), highly curved, it allows pressure to be applied to the prostate and new sensations to be experienced. It often features an additional branch, which rests on the perineum to stimulate it.
• strapons: made up of 2 parts, strapons are not necessarily anal toys, but can absolutely be used as such. The shorter part is inserted into the vagina of the person wearing it, and the longer branch is used to penetrate another person. Better than a strap-on dildo, strapons allow a genuine sensation of movement transmission.

How to use an anal toy?

• Solo: insert the anal sex toy of your choice, then let yourself go with a masturbation session. You can use only the anal sex toy, but don't hesitate to also stimulate your penis gold clitoris, using your hand gold a second sex toy — the sensations will be explosive!
• With a partner: once the sex toy is inserted, let your partner take care of your other erogenous zones, for some truly heated moments. You can also wear the anal sex toy during penetration, which allows you to maximise sensations! Some anal sex toys are even remote-controlled: let your partner take control from a distance!

Is lube essential for anal play?

To ensure maximum comfort during anal play, using a lube is strongly recommended. Indeed, the anus does not self-lubricate, so penetration must be eased with a suitable product that also protects the mucous membranes throughout the entire stimulation. Depending on the material of your anal sex toy, you will opt for a water-based, silicone-based, gold oil-based lube.

Is using an anal sex toy a common practice?

Yes, it is a widely practised and stigma-free activity. The figures from the 2024 Customer Knowledge Survey (based on 11,569 customers) are clear: 30.4% of customers at Passage du Désir have already purchased an anal sex toy (plug, anal beads...).

That is almost as much as sex toys for couples (34.8%), proof that anal has become an undeniable source of pleasure in mainstream culture.

Are there any health benefits to using an anal sex toy?

Yes, particularly for the perineum and the prostate. Some accessories such as the Peridise have a dual function: pleasure and health. Using this type of stimulator helps strengthen the perineal area through regular contractions, which is beneficial for both women and men (prostate health, control).

For men, prostate massage is also recommended to prevent certain conditions.

How to choose an anal sex toy safely?

Safety is the number one criterion: material and shape. For safe use, it is essential to choose a toy with a flared base (to prevent it from getting lost) and made from a "Body Safe" material (non-porous medical-grade silicone).

With an NPS of 58, Passage du Désir guarantees a selection of tested and safe products, unlike marketplaces where material quality is often uncertain.