Clitoral sextoy

How does the clitoris work?

The clitoris is the most sensitive organ in the body: it contains nearly 8,000 sensory receptors (by comparison, there are "only" 2,500 on the fingertips). Entirely dedicated to pleasure, it is the fastest route to orgasm. It sits above the vagina and urethral opening, at the junction of the labia minora. At rest, it may be hidden beneath a fold of skin called the hood, and it is much easier to locate when highly aroused, as it swells.
In reality, the clitoris is larger than it appears, simply because the external part — the glans of the clitoris — is only the tip of the iceberg! The clitoris extends internally, straddling the vagina, and reaches a total length of around 12 cm. Impressive, isn't it?

What are the different ways to stimulate the clitoris?

The external part of the clitoris can be stimulated in several ways:

• by friction: for example with your fingers, or with sextoys that have a silicone flap performing back-and-forth movements
• by vibration: the most common type of stimulation, thanks to the wide range of sextoys available
• contactless: a revolutionary type of stimulation that stimulates the clitoral glans without direct touch, using air movements
• by pressure: with your fingers, or by pressing your sextoy more or less firmly against the area
  
  

Which sextoys are best for clitoral stimulation?

There are loads and loads of clitoral sextoys out there. It's not always easy to find your way through all the different shapes on offer! Let us help you sort through them:

• Clitoral pebbles: generally elongated, flat and compact, vibrating pebbles are perfect for discovering the world of sextoys. You can either rest the flat side against the clitoris for a diffuse sensation, or place the edge against the clitoral glans for more precise and intense stimulation. Their small size also makes them great toys for couples, as they slip easily between bodies.
• Bullets or clitoral cartridges: these small, cylindrical toys are true powerhouses. Designed for ultra-precise stimulation of the clitoral glans, they are the most discreet sextoys available.
• Wands: featuring a vibrating round head and a handle, wands are — for the most part — large sextoys and the most powerful on the market. However, mini-wands are becoming increasingly popular, offering the same power as pebbles. Their advantage? The handle, which provides a good grip and prevents you from straining your wrist to reach the clitoris.
• Friction sextoys: they feature one or more silicone flaps that perform rotating or up-and-down movements. Recommended for those who find vibration uncomfortable, or who have already tried everything else.
• Contactless stimulators: they all feature a hollow tip designed to be placed around the clitoral glans. Perfect for quick or even multiple orgasms.

Why is using a clitoral stimulator often necessary to orgasm?

It's an anatomical reality, not a whim! The figures speak for themselves: 75% of women need clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm (Passage du Désir data).

Sexologist Mathilde Magnien also points out that only 5% of people with a clitoris are able to orgasm through penetration alone. A clitoral sextoy is therefore not an "extra" — it is often the primary key to pleasure.

How does a clitoral stimulator work?

A clitoral stimulator, often called a "clitoral sucker", works by delivering targeted stimulation — generally through pressure waves or suction — without direct contact.
This method is highly effective, as 75% of women need clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm. A product study on the Womanizer shows that 94% find the stimulation pleasurable and 76% reached orgasm with it.

What is the best clitoral stimulator for beginners?

Go for contactless technology — a firm favourite with users.

The Womanizer brand dominates the market: it is used by more than 40% of French people (Survey "Le Temps & La Masturbation" by Passage du Désir, October 2025, 568 participants).

If you're looking for a more affordable option, you can choose the Sienna from Passage du Désir.

Does clitoral stimulation have health benefits?

Yes, it is a powerful natural painkiller. The clinical study "Menstrubation" (2021), conducted on 486 people, demonstrated that regular clitoral stimulation reduces period pain in 70% of women.

For 42% of them, this practice is as effective as taking painkillers, thanks to the massive release of endorphins.