We often hear about dear cunnilingus, but the spotlight is rarely on anilingus. Seen as a somewhat taboo sexual practice, it can be an immense source of pleasure if done with care and consent. So, how to succeed in anilingus and make your partner climb the walls? We tell you everything in 5 essential points.
Preparation
Stop there! Know that an enema is absolutely not mandatory for this practice (nor for any other, by the way). If you want to feel "clean," wash the area in the shower or with a fragrance-free wipe.
Stimulation
Each case is unique and all depends on your desires, but we advise you to go gradually. Start with small caresses, kisses on the area. To ramp up the excitement, go gently and progressively before getting to the heart of the matter with your tongue.
Position
Not all positions work for anilingus, it's a matter of common sense (lol). To have the best time, find the most comfortable position that makes the area easily accessible. On the stomach, on all fours, spooning... Be inventive! 🙂
Communication
As in all sexual practices, consent is central. Make sure you and your partner are ready before starting, and communicate well about your preferences and limits. If it's a first time, don't hesitate to set up a safeword in case you want to stop everything.
Protection
If you want to practice anilingus with a new partner, think about protecting yourself. You are never safe from an STI/STD, so use protections such as a dental dam or a shortened condom.
You now have all the keys to know how to succeed in anilingus. As they say, now there's nothing left to do but do it!
Lou ✨
Hello, I'm Lou! Holder of a degree in Human and Social Sciences, I have been interested in sex topics for several years. Following several trainings, notably with sexologist Mathilde Magnien, Passage du Désir called on me to prepare articles for you on topics related to sex, love, or relationships. My credo? Open the conversation on sexual well-being, in a light, fun, and caring tone. 💜
