Slow Sex

When it comes to games for two, there's no shortage of options. So many possibilities! What do we choose? Have you heard of slow sex? If you say no, then it's time to give it a try! Let me explain why it's worth the detour and how to do it.

Quick quick quick! An orgasm!

In everyday life, at work, at home, we're constantly rushing. Chasing results, objectives — urgency and haste rule our lives. And so, in bed, we tend to do the same. Dreaming of an orgasm, we almost forget the journey that leads there (which is quite a shame…). Specialist in the feminine cycle and positive psychology, Cécile de Williencourt reminds us that "The pursuit of orgasm at all costs takes us away from what we are living in the moment". So, what if we took our time?

Slowly, but surely.

But what exactly is Slow Sex? Close to tantrism, it is a practice that involves experiencing sex in full awareness, to prolong pleasure and above all live it more intensely. Slowing down to refocus on the senses, on the other person and on oneself. We take the time to feel each caress, each sensation, each emotion, to forget our insecurities, our daily worries — in fact, we reconnect the body to the mind. And we let go! Granted, it's easier said than done. But since we're nice, here are a few tips.

Creating a favourable atmosphere to disconnect from reality and everyday life

Start by turning off the devices that remind you of your obligations. Because yes, receiving a text from your mother-in-law in the middle of a cuddle session is not great. Switch everything off and create an atmosphere that stimulates the senses. Candles, scents / fragrances, music, massage oils, listening and speaking are all little tricks that will stimulate you physically and mentally.

Slow sex is ideal for letting go

Relax! The more you manage to let go, the better you will feel things. This can be a more difficult exercise for people who feel self-conscious about their bodies, but you can make it easier with breathing exercises, relaxation gold daily meditation.

Slow, but not inactive

Slow doesn't mean flat gold boring. It's more about taking the time to tend to the other person, varying the rhythms and being attentive to every sensation. You can absolutely alternate between fast and slow intensity levels. Once again, the goal is above all to focus on the build-up of pleasure rather than on the orgasm itself.

Slow Sex gold not Slow Sex? 

We see you, adrenaline junkies — we know that taking your time isn't always possible, and we don't always feel like it either. Slow Sex is a practice to incorporate into your sex life, it's not all you do. It's above all a way to spice things up a little and shake up your habits!

Try to take your time during your next sexual encounter gold solo session, and let us know how it goes ;)

See you soon 💜