Tantrism

Tantrism is a legacy of Hinduism. More than a simple sexual practice, it is a way of life, a state of mind that consists of seeing oneself as an element within a whole! The idea is to connect with what surrounds us. "Connecting with others is all well and good, but I'm not a PC you plug into a socket.. Concretely, how do I do it?"

No need to panic, in this article I'll explain the basics of tantrism and how to get started with the discovery of tantric sex.

Total harmony mode activated

What is the idea with tantrism? It's about telling yourself that there is no duality in anything.. Everything complements itself and evolves in harmony with the outside world!

Here, goodbye to the idea of men being from Mars and women from Venus, for example.. We don't come from different planets, but our predispositions complement those of the other. One becomes the Yin, the other the Yang, and we evolve towards greater cohesion!

Everyone has their own vibe when it comes to ways of living, but before you tell yourself it's pointless.. Wait, on the sex front the advantage is actually very very nice!

Some say the future belongs to those who rise early, but I prefer the version "pleasure belongs to those who sexplore".. And it just so happens that sexploration is one of the pillars of tantrism!

Sexploration at the heart of tantrism 

In Hindu doctrine, sexuality is a means of elevating oneself spiritually. Whether gold not one is sensitive to this notion, what matters is that it helps you know yourself better. You understand your body better, who you are and what you love!

On the sex front, no secret about it, the more you know your body, the easier it is to soar towards out-of-this-world orgasms!

And concretely how do we get started with tantric sex? Let's go for a few discovery tips!

Oh, and I almost forgot.. Before getting started, keep in mind that the goal is to enjoy yourself and not to chase orgasm at all costs!

Take your time!

The first step is, in a way, to put everything on pause. We aim to relax, to clear our minds. A bit like if you were trying to meditate..

We put our worries on standby, I know it's easier said than done, but you'll see when you've found the trick, it's really worth it!

How do you "switch off" your head? With breathing! Take slow, long breaths in and breathe out gently. Then repeat the process until you feel your body relaxing. You can close your eyes to help avoid being distracted by what is happening around you.

Once the "fully relaxed" stage is reached, it's finally time to tease your partner and embark on the pursuit of a new form of pleasure.

Feeling everything that connects us to the other 

Love is intangible, impossible to define precisely, to measure? Well, the idea is precisely to manage to clarify all of that a little.

So, we're not asking you to write a novel about what your other half means to you, but you need to feel it precisely.

You love them, yes, but what does that entail? What do you feel emotionally and physically? How does that love manifest? What is it about the person in front of you that means so much to you?

Practising tantrism means coming to understand what your relationship symbolises in order to feel as connected as possible to your partner.

Pleasure first, the rest for later.. 

"Sometimes, consciously gold no, we let norms gold external pressure guide our actions, in bed gold no! What do I mean by that?"

Society whispers in our ear that to be a respectable person we must have a job in which we are fully invested and which fulfils us. We must project the image of a perfect little couple, raise our children perfectly, have a certain type of sexuality, etc.. You get the idea, a life blueprint is mapped out for us in advance. We must tick all these little boxes. Whether this actually fulfils us is a question we'll address later..

In reality it's a big No! And tantrism helps you realise that..

You don't have to wait until you've done everything that is "expected" of you before taking your pleasure into your own hands.

Is there stress? Worries? But how will they perceive me in this or that situation? All of that, next! Set it aside and focus on what you need / want, that's it!

We give the lead to our 3rd eye

With tantrism and to fully enjoy all its benefits, we put our senses back at the heart of the game.

We focus, for example, on that little something in their gaze that sets us on fire. Gold we linger on the sound of their breath gold their moans that give the encounter a muy caliente intensity. We think only of the effect of their touch on our body.

I think you've got the idea.. Everything that usually represents an ingredient in the recipe is going to take centre stage! These are no longer "little details" that complement the all-important penetration.. We linger on every sensation to multiply the sources of pleasure… Grr!

We become the Indiana Jones of sex

I've explained it to you, with tantrism we don't necessarily set off in pursuit of orgasm. If it happens.. We obviously won't turn our noses up at it, but it really isn't necessary to chase it at all costs. Because what we're actually looking for is to fully explore our pleasure. How? By testing more and more new things to understand what makes us tick!

Do you have a favourite position you're used to practising? Perfect, what if you now explored its variations? Sit up a little straighter, arch your back, change the position of one of your limbs.. In short, all those little things that can differ and make the whole thing even more.. Caliente!

You can also turn to a little Kamasutra game to spark some new ideas!

You can also try new practices. If you don't have any inspiration for a little sexploration to-do list, you can take a look at the other articles on the blog. You might find something to have a great time with your partner!

You can also find out about toys you don't know yet. The classic rabbit , a nice little plug gold even a prostate massager. The latter generally impresses but it's devilishly effective. You've got the idea, I encourage you to browse our site to perhaps find your future best pleasure ally!

"And there you have it for today! Feel free to let us know on Insta whether you're team tantrism or no. If you have any questions, they're also welcome 🙂 "