Tantrism

Tantrism is a legacy of Hinduism. More than just a sexual practice, it is a way of life, a mindset that involves considering oneself as an element within a whole! The idea is to connect with what surrounds us. "Connecting with others is all well and good, but I'm not a PC that you plug into an outlet. How do I actually do that?"

Don't panic, in this article, I explain the basics of tantrism and how to embark on the discovery of tantric sex.

Total harmony mode activated

What's the idea with tantrism? It's to say that there is no duality in anything. Everything complements and evolves in harmony with the outside!

Here, goodbye to the idea of men being from Mars and women from Venus, for example. We don't come from different planets, but our predispositions complement each other. One becomes the Yin, the other the Yang, and we move towards more cohesion!

Everyone has their own vibe when it comes to lifestyle, but before you say it's pointless, wait, on the sex side, the advantage is rather very, very nice!

Some say the future belongs to those who wake up early, I prefer the version "pleasure belongs to those who sexplore"... And that's good because sexploration is one of the pillars of tantrism!

Sexploration at the heart of tantrism

In Hindu doctrine, sexuality is a means to elevate oneself spiritually. Whether one is sensitive to this notion or not, what must be remembered is that it helps to better know oneself. We better understand our body, what we are, and what we like!

On the sex side, no secret, the more we know our body, the easier it is to soar towards space orgasms!

And how do we actually embark on tantric sex? Let's go for some discovery tips!

Oh, and I almost forgot... Before starting, we keep in mind that the goal is to have fun and not to run after orgasm at all costs!

Take your time!

The first step is to sort of put everything on pause. We seek to relax, to clear our mind. A bit like if you were trying to meditate...

We put our worries on standby, and I know it's easier said than done, but you'll see when you've found the trick, it's really worth it!

How do we "unplug" our mind? With breathing! You take slow and long breaths and exhale slowly. Then you repeat the operation until you feel your body relax. You can close your eyes to help avoid being distracted by what's happening around.

Once the "full relaxation" stage is reached, it's finally time to tease your partner and embark on the pursuit of a new form of pleasure.

Feel everything that binds us to the other

Love is intangible, impossible to define precisely, to measure? Well, the idea is precisely to try to clarify all that a bit.

So, we don't ask you to write a novel about what your other half represents for you, but you need to feel it precisely.

You love them, yes, but what does that imply? What do you feel in terms of emotions and physically? How does this love manifest? What makes the person in front of you mean so much to you?

Practicing tantra is about understanding what symbolizes your relationship to feel as connected as possible to your partner.

Pleasure first, the rest for later..

Sometimes, consciously or not, we let norms or external pressure guide our actions, in bed or not! What do I mean by that?

Society whispers in our ear that to be a respectable person, we need to have a job in which we fully engage and that fulfills us. We need to present the image of a perfect little couple, perfectly educate our children, have a certain type of sexuality, etc. You get the idea, a life plan is laid out for us in advance. We must check all these little boxes. Whether it fulfills us is a question we'll address later..

In reality, it's a big no! And tantra helps us realize that..

We shouldn't wait to have done everything that's "expected" of us to embrace our pleasure.

Is there stress? Concerns? But how will they perceive me in this or that situation? All that, next! We set it aside and focus on what we need/want, that's all!

We give the lead to our 3rd eye

With tantra and to fully enjoy all its benefits, we put our senses at the heart of the game.

We focus, for example, on that little something they have in their gaze that ignites us. Or we linger on the sound of their breath or moans that give an intense muy caliente vibe to the encounter. We only think about the effect of their caress on our body.

Finally, I think you get the idea.. Everything that can usually represent an ingredient of the recipe will take center stage! It's no longer about "little details" that complement the sacrosanct penetration.. We linger on each feeling to add up the sources of pleasure... Grr!

We become the Indiana Jones of the Q

As I explained, with tantra, we don't necessarily go on a quest for orgasm. If it happens.. We obviously don't turn it down, but it's really not necessary to seek it at all costs. Because what we're really looking for is to fully explore our pleasure. How? By testing new things again and again to understand what makes us vibrate!

Are you used to practicing a certain position that you like? Perfect, and what if you now explored its variations? We straighten up a little more, arch, change the position of one of their limbs.. In short, those little things that can differ and make the whole thing even more.. Caliente!

You can also turn to a little Kamasutra game to get new ideas!

You can also try new practices. If you lack inspiration to make a little sexploration to-do list, you can take a look at the other articles on the blog. You might find something to have fun with your partner!

You can also learn about toys you don't know yet. The classic rabbit, a nice little plug, or even a prostate massager. The latter is generally impressive but it's devilishly effective. You get the idea, I encourage you to browse our site to perhaps find your future best pleasure ally!

That's it for today! Feel free to tell us on Insta if you're on the tantra team or not. If you have any questions, they are also welcome 🙂