Ah, cunnilingus... A true art, isn't it? Its orgasmic power and multiple facets make it a very popular practice. But the lack of experience and the fears associated with it can generate apprehension and even blocks. The million-dollar question (to be said in a Canadian accent) then remains: how do you give great cunnilingus and become the orgasm machine you've always dreamed of being? Put on your glasses, we'll explain it all:
Disclaimer ❌
- The golden rule, as with any sexual practice, is consent.
- The golden rule part two: protect yourself if you and your partner haven't yet had STI screenings. Dental dam, internal condom, latex gloves — find the right solution to stay safe during cunnilingus!
The basics 🍑
- Gently does it, darling: build up gradually, starting with soft little kisses gold gentle caresses around the lips for example. Remember to explore other erogenous zones such as the nipples gold the lower belly.
- Vary the pace and remember to take breaks. The idea isn't to end up suffocated, even if it would be a rather comical way to go...
- Be creative. It's not a choreography and there are countless combinations, each more enjoyable than the last. The same technique will drive X wild but not Y, and even with X it might not work every single time.
- Listen to the other person and adapt your movements to their sensitivity. If the person starts moaning and writhing with pleasure, don't change A THING!
Techniques 🤓
- Because everyone is different, it can happen that the clitoral glans is tucked away. In that case, make sure to properly unhood it by pulling with two fingers to make it accessible to pleaaaasure.
- Kiss, lick, scratch, caress, suck... In short, vary the stimulations to discover the combination that will blow their mind!
- In that sense, don't use just your tongue but also your lips, your fingers, or even your face.
- Speaking of tongue: keep it flat if you're looking for a diffuse stimulation, or pointed if you want more precise stimulation with more pressure.
- Bonus: two fingers in a hook position can make ALL the difference depending on your partner's preferences. You can also combine cunnilingus with anal stimulation for example.
The best positions 🎠
Let's call the person receiving Tic and the person giving Tac:
- The classic: Tic lies on their back, Tac is at the end, between their legs (lying down or crouching).
- The cat cuddle: Tic lies on their back, Tac lies on their side, head towards Tic's feet and rests their cheek on Tic's thigh.
- The doggy dog: Tic is on all fours, Tac is behind.
- The reverse wheelbarrow: Tac rises on their knees and lifts Tic's hips as Tic lies on their back.
- The pedestal: Tic lies on their back at the edge of the bed and rests their feet on Tac's shoulders as Tac kneels on the floor.
- Face sitting: Tic sits above Tac's face, facing forwards gold backwards, on their knees gold in a squat if they have thighs of iron.
And there you have it, now you know how to give great cunnilingus. Time to get to it! 😋


