Ah, cunnilingus... Quite an art, isn't it? Its orgasmic power and multiple facets make it a very popular practice. But lack of experience and associated fears can generate apprehensions or even blockages. The million-dollar question (to be pronounced with a Quebec accent) then remains: how to perform good cunnilingus and become the orgasm vacuum you've always dreamed of being? Put on your glasses, we'll explain everything:
Disclaimer ❌
- The golden rule, as with any sexual practice, is consent.
- The second golden rule is to protect yourself if you and your partner have not yet been tested for STDs/STIs. Dental dam, internal condom, latex gloves, it's up to you to find the right solution to stay safe during cunnilingus!
The basics of basics 🍑
- Easy does it: start slowly with gentle kisses or caresses around the lips, for example. Remember to explore other erogenous zones like the nipples or lower belly.
- Vary the pace and remember to take breaks. The idea is not to end up suffocated, although that would be a rather humorous death...
- Show creativity. It's not a choreography and there are countless exciting combinations. The same technique might drive X wild but not Y, and even for X, it might not work every time.
- Listen to the other person and adapt your movements to their sensitivity. If the person starts moaning and writhing with pleasure, don't change ANYTHING!
Techniques 🤓
- Because everyone is different, it might happen that the clitoral glans is buried. In that case, make sure to uncover it properly by pulling with two fingers to make it accessible for pleasuure.
- Kiss, lick, scratch, caress, suck... In short, vary the stimulations to discover the combination that will blow their pleasure meter!
- In this sense, don't use just your tongue but also your lips, fingers, or even your face.
- Speaking of tongue: lay it flat if you're looking for a diffuse stimulation, or point it if you want a more precise stimulation with more pressure.
- Bonus: two hooked fingers can make THE difference depending on your partner's tastes. You can also combine oral with anal stimulation, for example.
The best positions 🎠
Let's call the person receiving Tic and the person giving Tac:
- The classic: Tic is lying on their back, Tac is at the end, between their legs (lying down or crouched).
- The cat's cuddle: Tic is lying on their back, Tac is lying on their side, head towards Tic's feet and rests their cheek on Tic's thigh.
- The doggy dog: Tic is on all fours, Tac is behind.
- The inverted wheelbarrow: Tac gets up on their knees and lifts Tic's pelvis who is on their back.
- The pedestal: Tic is on their back at the edge of the bed and places their feet on Tac's shoulders who is kneeling on the floor.
- The face sitting : Tic is sitting above Tac's face, facing forward or backward, on the knees or in a squat if they have iron-clad thighs.
And there you go, now you know how to give a good cunnilingus. Just go for it! 😋


