You may have already heard this term, both evocative and rather vague: face sitting. In terms of meaning, it literally refers to sitting on your partner's face (yes, Jean-Mi, you should have studied English!). But concretely, why do we do it? And more importantly, how do we do it? Here is everything you need to know about this practice that is both enigmatic and full of promise.
Direct stimulation + feeling of control = tenfold pleasure!
As you may have guessed, the idea of face sitting is to have oro-genital (gold oro-anal) contact. Originating from the BDSM scene, the idea of face sitting is to have control over your partner's breathing. Also known as "Queening", this practice allows the person with a vulva to take the upper hand over the other and "enslave" them to their own pleasure. Queening can have a very positive effect on self-confidence, allowing control of the rhythm, pressure and angle of the position. Finally, it is a practice that fosters physical and emotional closeness between partners, as it gives one of them the opportunity to "offer" a part of their body to the other.
With or without accessories
Just like in everyday life, you can sit on the floor, but also on a chair (yes, really, I promise!). That's why the "Queening chair" was designed. This rather special chair has a hole in the seat. It allows those who want to practise face sitting to avoid cutting off the other person's breathing (and also to avoid thigh cramps). This is the moment when you remember having already seen a chair like this and naively thought "Well, that's a useless chair with no seat! What's the point?". Well, now you know what that chair was really for. 🙂
In short, whether practised face-to-face or bottom-to-face, with or without accessories, face sitting is a position you absolutely must try if you want to feel in control of the situation!
We're going to help you see things a little more clearly in the wonderful, but sometimes baffling, world of sex toys!
What for?
For pleasure! Yes, of course, but it's not as simple as that. There are as many pleasures as there are people, so the idea is not to rush for the "best-seller" but rather to ask yourself what you're looking for.


