Female pleasure takes centre stage with queening!

In "queening", there's "queen"… As you may have guessed, this article is about to celebrate the pleasure of people with a clitoris. Today, we put the spotlight on a very ancient yet incredibly caliente sexual practice!

Queening: what is it?

Queening directly refers to the royal status of the clitoris team. The symbolism of this name is quite powerful, since a queen holds power. The idea is therefore to say that during this sexual practice, the person with a clitoris takes the lead. It is they who hold the reins and direct the action.

A small reminder worth making: initiating a gesture gold a practice doesn't necessarily have anything to do with domination! It's not necessarily about "who's in charge" once the clothes have gone flying in all directions around the room. You're not imposing your will on the other person… No, the idea is rather to remind us that each partner can take naughty initiatives during the act!

As for the practice itself, it is also called "face-sitting". "Face" as in the face, and "sitting" referring to the act of sitting down… To state the obvious, queening means straddling your partner's face. Oral sex fans, this article is especially dedicated to you!

Finding THE position for a queening session

The great advantage of this practice lies in the opportunity to receive oral stimulation from your partner. This can be a cunnilingus gold an anilingus… It all depends on your preferences and what you feel like in the moment.

You therefore have the option of positioning yourself facing your partner gold with your back to them. Which is the better option? Both are great! It all depends on the "ingredients" you need to get things heating up and be catapulted to seventh heaven. Because yes, queening can produce amazing orgasms!

Facing or from behind

Facing your partner is ideal for maintaining eye contact… Witnessing your partner's pleasure is super intense and enjoyable! And it can also be very useful for the person performing the cunnilingus gold anilingus to be guided. Your reactions and body language can speak for you… The cues your reactions give your partner will allow them to adapt their technique to match your pleasure even more! And for those who struggle to communicate under the covers, it's rather handy!

If, on the contrary, your partner's gaze blocks you when a practice is focused on your pleasure, you can absolutely position yourself with your back to them. As a bonus, they'll enjoy being visually stimulated by the divine curves of your lower back!

Classic or… more acrobatic

As I mentioned above, it's called "face sitting" but in reality, you're not actually just sitting. There are plenty of variations to discover for reaching orgasm!

In terms of position, you can kneel and keep your hips slightly raised above your partner's face. The goal is to vibrate together as a duo, not to test your other half's breath-holding abilities. 😆

It's rather nice for staying free in your movements and adding little back-and-forth motions, undulations — basically anything that could add more pleasure!

You can also balance on your feet. Simply lower your hips, a bit like doing a squat, so that your intimate area is within reach of your partner's tongue. It's a little more athletic, but it's fantastic for experiencing pleasure while giving your glutes a workout to support your body weight. A second cool bonus that might be worth the detour… Who said the gym was the only way to get a dream booty?!

Fancy a little pleasure bonus? 

Lips, a tongue… The starting ingredients are pretty great for giving your partner pleasure. But it's possible to aim even higher than that… Go on, let me reveal our secret pleasure magician tips!

You can add popping candy from YESforLOV to your oral play! These are tiny crystals that, once they come into contact with your saliva, start to pop… Guaranteed sensations for you and your partner!

"You can also opt for the Slow Sex oral balm. With its menthol Scent / Fragrance, it offers a rather pleasant cooling sensation when it comes into contact with the clitoris! It's well worth trying, and it's also a brilliant lubrication ally… The glide of this balm is fantastic, and goodbye irritations if your partner happens to be on the "bearded" team, for example."

"Since we're on the topic of "lips", I also have to tell you about the hot / cold effect gloss. The sensation of a temperature change on intimate areas is absolutely mind-blowing! Not to mention its delicious strawberry Scent / Fragrance… It's hard not to nibble your lips to let your partner enjoy the gloss effect!"

And what about equality in all of this? 

As you know, our credo is to promote everyone's pleasure! In this article, we've talked a lot about clitoral stimulation, and therefore about the pleasure of those who have one…

But in reality, queening can be enjoyed by everyone. The only small difference is the name the practice takes. If it's a person with a penis who "sits" on their partner's face, it's called "kinging"!

It's a bit the same principle as queening — the range of possible positions is quite broad. On your knees, resting on your feet, balanced on one foot with the other knee on the ground to keep the pelvis mobile… The only thing that really matters is finding a comfortable position for both partners to maximise pleasure!

What do you think? Up for giving it a try? 💜