How to find your kink?

A kink is a "non-conventional" sexual desire. Used in opposition to "vanilla" sex, we then talk about "kinky" sex. Often associated with a "quirk," a kink is actually just the expression of your fantasies, and is no stranger than having different tastes than your neighbor. Let's move away from this negative view and delve deep into our psyche to find what makes us thrill with pleasure... So Jamy, how do you find your kink?

An active and kind exploration

To find your kink, well, you first need to look for it (thank you Sherlock )! Don't hesitate to try new things and explore your sexuality in a new way. To do this, you can, for example, play naughty games with your friends or partner. You can also learn about existing kinky practices like fetishism, role-playing, domination/submission, shibari, group sexuality... All this research should be done without judgment and in a fairly exhaustive manner so as not to miss out on a practice that could revolutionize your sexuality!

And if I don't have a kink?

While the search for your kink can be enriching and teach you things about yourself, it can also be a failure. If you are reading this article, it's because you have questions about kinks and are looking to try new things without really knowing what. You might discover words, practices, or even body areas you didn't know about, and it can be scary or simply not interest you. No one is forcing you to jump into the lion's den. Try kinky sex only if you really want to, and with a trusted person or people. Otherwise, vanilla sex is cool too!

We are going to help you see a bit more clearly in the wonderful, but sometimes incomprehensible, world of sex toys!

For what purpose?

To have pleasure! Yes, of course, but it's not that simple. There are as many pleasures as there are people, so the idea is not to rush to the "best-seller" but rather to ask yourself what you are looking for. 🙂