The Art of Shibari

Shibari kinbaku is a Japanese art involving bondage (tying someone up). Though often associated with BDSM, shibari is more of a spiritual, meditative and even therapeutic practice for reconnecting with your body. Let us explain!

The Art of Shibari: Between Eroticism and Aesthetics

Because the human body is a true work of art, why not showcase it even further by adorning it with rope? Depending on the thickness of the rope, the number and placement of the knots tied on the bound person, the aesthetic of the body can take on an entirely different form. It is partly these multiple possibilities that define the art of shibari. Practising it clothed or unclothed can also bring a completely different aesthetic.

The Art of Letting Go

The knots and the sensation of being tied up can trigger the release of endorphins, and therefore a deep feeling of relaxation that is far from unpleasant! By placing their trust in the person doing the tying, partners agree (see what we did there?) to surrender completely to the experience.

Shibari as a Sexual Practice

The feel of rope against the body, the relaxation it brings and the sense of restraint can all be very exciting, depending on the person. Shibari isn’t necessarily a sexual practice; whether it leads to sex is entirely up to you and your consenting partner! 😉

The Rules of Shibari

Speaking of consent, shibari does carry risks. That makes talking beforehand and having everyone’s clear, full consent essential. Be mindful of the materials you use, learn which knots are and aren’t safe to tie, and always keep scissors close to hand. To avoid taking risks, we recommend taking shibari classes, which will also help you get to know the anatomy involved inside out (including where nerves and potentially sensitive areas are).

Accessories

Rope (preferably hemp or jute), scarves, handcuffs... Take a look at light bondage accessories for inspiration! Rope specifically designed for shibari is still the best option, though.

In short, the art of shibari is an alternative to penetration or more traditional erotic/sexual practices. It's a wonderful way to discover yourself and explore your limits, with one partner or more.