Shibari kinbaku is a Japanese art that involves practicing bondage (the act of tying oneself). Often associated with the BDSM universe, shibari is more of a spiritual, meditative, or even therapeutic practice to reconnect with one's body. We'll explain!
The Art of Shibari: Between Eroticism and Aesthetics
Because the human body is a true work of art, why not highlight it even more by dressing it with ropes? Depending on the size of the rope, the quantity, and the placement of the knots made on the tied person, the aesthetics of the body can take on a whole new form. These multiple possibilities are among what characterize the art of shibari. Practicing it clothed or not can also bring a completely different aesthetic.
The Art of Letting Go
The knots and the sensation of being tied can lead to the secretion of endorphins, and thus a deep feeling of relaxation that is not unpleasant! By trusting the person who ties, the partners agree (got it?) to indulge in a total letting go.
Shibari as a Sexual Practice
The friction of the rope on the body, the relaxation it induces, but also the notion of constraint are elements that can be very exciting depending on the people experiencing them. If shibari is not necessarily a sexual practice, whether it leads to intercourse or not is in your consenting hands! 😉
The Rules of the Art of Shibari
Speaking of consent, shibari remains a practice that involves risks. It is therefore subject to prior communication and total and clear consent from the partners. Also, pay attention to the materials used, learn about the different knots that can or cannot be made, and always have scissors within reach. To take no risks, we recommend taking shibari classes, which will also allow you to know anatomy like the back of your hand (location of nerves, potential sensitive points).
Accessories
Ropes (preferably hemp or jute), scarf, handcuffs... Check out the soft bondage accessories for inspiration! The most suitable remains the ropes specifically designed for practicing shibari.
In short, the art of shibari is an alternative to penetration or more traditional erotic/sexual practices. It's a great way to discover oneself and explore one's limits, with two or more.
Lou ✨
Hello, I'm Lou! Holder of a degree in Humanities and Social Sciences, I have been interested in sexology topics for several years. Following several trainings, notably with sexologist Mathilde Magnien, Passage du Désir called upon me to concoct articles for you on topics of sexology, love, or couples. My credo? To open the discussion on sexual well-being, in a light, fun, and caring tone. 💜
