How many times should a couple make love

You know it, everyone does what they like in terms of sexuality.

But you like to hurt yourself and mess up your head with silly questions like "How many times should a couple make love?".

Even if there is no universal answer to this million-dollar question, let's try to see if there is a suitable answer according to the types of couples. 🧐

A matter of desire 🔥

Of course, there are couples who make love every day. There are also those who do it once a month, quarterly, or even never. What differentiates them is their sexual desire for each other, but also more generally each person's libido. In addition to being unique to each person and not always synchronized with the other, libido encompasses a whole range of desires not just sexual and varies according to many factors.

Factors influencing libido ✉️

• Lifestyle: 

sedentary lifestyle, stress, sleep, menstrual cycle... a whole bunch of external factors that make us more or less caliente at a given time

• The weather:

and yes Jammie, generally we feel more like having sex when it's not -4° under the covers (but if that's your case, you deserve to receive your snowflake of 🍑)

• The phase of the couple:

fusion, differentiation, exploration, intimacy... To delve deeper into the subject, read our article "The 4 phases of the couple"

• Communication:

a partner with whom we can talk freely about consent, kinks or even about mental health, it helps enormously to build trust and to feel ready to desire the other.

In conclusion 👇

As expected, there is no magic answer to the question "How many times should a couple make love?". 

But now you know what influences this famous number, and you have probably understood that it can change from one couple to another and from one period to another. 

So no pressure, just listening, communication to find the balance that suits our relationship, and love of course. 💖