Give pleasure with a big penis

Attention to large penises, today we're going to talk about a topic that affects many people but is not often discussed: how to give pleasure with a penis a little longer or wider than average? Because yes, size matters. Especially when you have to adapt to the reality of the vagina which, as a reminder, measures on average only 10 cm in depth.

Big penis means: more preparation

When you have a large penis and want to have a penetrative relationship, slowness, gentleness, and preparation are essential! Indeed, it is crucial to take the time to prepare the ground. So double up on caresses to awaken and stimulate your partner's entire body and spend time with your mouth, fingers, or toys on their erogenous zones. When excited, one is more dilated QED. So take your time, you're not in a hurry, are you? 🙂

Lubricant: the pleasure ally of big penises

Lubricant is the best friend of large penises. Its slippery power reduces friction and enhances pleasure during penetration. Don't hesitate to apply a generous amount and add more at the slightest discomfort. Prefer oil-based or silicone-based lubricants for their very high slipperiness. However, be careful, remember that oil-based lubes are not compatible with condoms and silicone-based lubricants are not compatible with silicone sex toys.

The positions to favor for pleasure with a big penis

Not all positions are suitable when you have a large penis. If your penis size is not suitable for your partner, try positions with little penetration amplitude. The Spoon position allows, for example, shallow penetration. You can also favor positions where the penetrated person has control over the angle and depth of penetration, such as the Andromache.

Be creative and explore what works best for both of you.

Accessories to make penetration less deep:

If despite this, penetration is not pleasant, don't panic! There are accessories that allow you to control the depth of penetration. For example, a cock ring placed in the middle of the shaft will act as a stopper and prevent too deep and unpleasant penetration.

You can also make do with what you have and place cushions under the buttocks of the penetrated person to change the angle and make the penetration less deep.

Non-penetrative sex for pleasure with a large penis

Remember, penetration is not the only (nor sometimes the best) way to have fun together! Don't forget that only 5% of people with a clitoris reach orgasm with penetration alone. So if, despite all our advice, penetration remains complicated, don't worry, there are still 1001 ways to feel good! Use your fingers, hands, mouths, lips, and tongues to give pleasure to the other. If you're looking for inspiration, this little book is a treasure trove of information and tutorials to enjoy without penetrating.

There you go, you have all the cards in hand to maximize pleasure with your partner, make good use of them 😉

And if you're part of the team with more modest penises, check out our article "how to give pleasure with a small penis" right here!