Giving pleasure with a large penis

Attention, large penis owners — today, we're going to talk about a subject that affects many people but is rarely discussed: how to give pleasure with a penis that is a little longer gold wider than average? Because yes, size matters. Especially when you need to adapt to the reality of the vagina which, let's remember, measures on average only 10 cm in depth.

A large penis means: more preparation

When you have a large penis and want to have penetrative sex, slowness, gentleness and preparation are essential! Indeed, it is crucial to take the time to prepare the ground. Shower your partner with caresses to awaken and stimulate their entire body, and spend time with your mouth, fingers gold toys on their erogenous zones. When you're aroused, you're more dilated — QED. So take your time, you're not in a rush, are you? 🙂

Lube: the pleasure ally for large penises

Lube is the best friend of large penises. Its slippery power reduces friction and enhances pleasure during penetration. Don't hesitate to apply a generous amount and add more at the slightest discomfort. Opt for oil-based gold silicone-based lubes for their very strong slipping power. Be careful, however: it's worth noting that oil-based lubes are not compatible with condoms, and that silicone-based lubes are not compatible with the use of silicone sex toys.

The best positions to enjoy pleasure with a large penis

Not all positions are suitable when you have a large penis. If the size of your penis is not suited to your partner, experiment with positions that allow for a shallow depth of penetration. The Spoon position, for example, allows for shallow penetration. You can also favour positions in which the person being penetrated controls the angle and depth of penetration, such as the Andromaque.

Be creative and explore what works best for both of you.

Accessories to make penetration less deep:

If despite this, penetration is not enjoyable, don't panic! There are accessories to control the depth of penetration. For example, a cockring placed in the middle of the shaft will act as a stopper and prevent penetration from going too deep and becoming uncomfortable.

You can also make do with what you have and place cushions under the hips of the person being penetrated in order to change the angle and make the penetration less deep.

Non-penetrative sex for pleasure with a large penis

Remember, penetration is not the only (nor sometimes the best) way to experience pleasure together! Don't forget that only 5% of people with a clitoris reach orgasm through penetration alone. So if, despite all our advice, penetration remains complicated, no worries — there are still 1001 ways to feel good! Use your fingers, hands, mouths, lips and tongues to give pleasure to the other person. If you're looking for inspiration, this little book is a treasure trove of information and tutorials for getting off without penetration.

There you have it — you now have all the tools you need to enjoy maximum pleasure with your partner, make good use of them 😉

And if you're part of the team with more modest penises, check out our article "how to give pleasure with a small penis" right here!