How can you give pleasure with a small penis?

Do you or your partner have a little willy and wonder how to give pleasure with a small penis? You’re in the right place!

Because having a small penis is far from the end of the world, we’ve put together our best tips for enjoying a fulfilling sex life while embracing what Mother Nature gave you. Let’s gooo!

What is a small penis?

Generally, a penis is considered ‘small’ if it measures less than 9 cm when erect. As a reminder, the average erect penis is roughly 13 cm long, while the average vaginal depth is 10 cm. So you don’t need an erection worthy of a porn star to give your partner pleasure. Especially as pressure, particularly against the sides, can stimulate the vagina. Let’s stop thinking that only long, thick penises can provide vaginal pleasure! It’s possible to give pleasure with a small penis.

How can you send your partner wild with a small penis?

Focus on the right movements

G-spot stimulation or prostate stimulation is entirely possible for someone with a small penis, as these areas are only a few centimetres from the entrance to the vagina and anus. Rather than thrusting back and forth, use rocking movements to vary the pressure you apply with your penis. You’ll see that these small changes in how you move can make a big difference when giving pleasure with a small penis.

Choose positions that allow deep penetration

• The anvil position. The person being penetrated lies on their back with their legs on the penetrating partner’s shoulders. As well as allowing deep penetration, this position stimulates the g-spot – a win-win! You can also try a variation that allows equally deep penetration: the person being penetrated draws their knees up towards their chest. You can thank me later.

• Reverse cowgirl. This is a variation on the cowgirl position, but instead of facing the penetrating partner, the person being penetrated faces away from them. They can control the depth by lowering themselves onto their partner’s penis. Combined with small hip movements from the person underneath, this position works wonders.

• Anal penetration: here’s one activity where smaller penises come into their own! As the anus is tighter than the vagina, even a penis that’s shorter and slimmer than average can create wonderful sensations through penetration alone.

Explore the countless possibilities of non-penetrative sex to give pleasure with a small penis

Small penis? No problem! When you consider that only 5% of people with a clitoris can reach orgasm through vaginal penetration alone, you can see why the Greek gods, known for their liberated sex lives, were so modestly endowed. So here’s today’s good news: you don’t need a (big) penis to make your partner orgasm!

While penetration, whether anal or vaginal, can be pleasurable, there are countless other ways to have fun together. Oral sex, mutual masturbation, sensual massages, rubbing, sex toys… let your imagination and desires lead the way, and discover everything your body can do.

Talk about it! And you can enjoy more pleasure together with a small penis

If you feel self-conscious about the size of your penis and it’s holding you back, don’t hesitate to talk to your partner. You could even bring it up jokingly to take the pressure off. A caring partner will never make fun of the size of your penis. On the contrary, they’ll be curious to see what you can do with it… or without it! If you let fear of judgement take over, you might find it harder to get an erection, which will only make you more stressed, and so on. Whatever happens, don’t let anxiety spoil the moment: sex should always be a pleasure. And if the person you’re with doesn’t appreciate your intimate parts for what they’re worth… next!

Try penis sleeves for more pleasure

If you’d like to experience having a longer or wider penis, you should know that penis enlargement sleeves are available. They fit over the penis to give both partners exquisite sensations. Penis pumps can also be an option if you’d like to feel as though you have a bigger penis for a little while. Use them sparingly, though!

If you’d like to explore the subject further, I recommend this great video by Charles.co on the topic.

And above all, don’t forget what my grandmother once told me: ‘Better a little one that wiggles than a big one that snoozes!’

Until next time!