How to give pleasure with a small penis?

You or your partner have a smaller penis and you're wondering how to give pleasure with a small penis? You're in the right place!

Because having a small one is far from a fatality — we've gathered our best advice to help you enjoy a fulfilling sex life while cherishing what nature has given you between your legs. Let's gooo!

What is a small penis?

Generally speaking, a penis is considered "small" when its erect length does not reach 9 cm. As a reminder, the average length of an erect penis is roughly 13 cm and the average depth of a vagina is 10 cm. So there's no need to have an erection worthy of the greatest porn actors to give your partner a great time. Especially since the vagina is stimulated by pressure (on the sides in particular). So let's stop thinking that only long and wide penises have a monopoly on vaginal pleasure! It is perfectly possible to give pleasure with a small penis.

How do you drive your partner wild with a small penis?

Focus on the right movements

G-spot stimulation or prostate stimulation is perfectly accessible for a person with a small penis, as these points are located just a few centimetres from the entrance of the vagina and anus. Rather than thrusting back and forth, play with the pressure you apply with your penis using rocking movements. You'll find that these small changes in the way you move can make a huge difference when it comes to giving pleasure with a small penis.

Opt for positions with deep penetration

• The anvil position. The penetrated person lies on their back with their legs on the shoulders of the penetrating person. As well as allowing for deep penetration, this position stimulates the g-spot — an absolute win! You can also try its variation, which allows for equally deep penetration: the penetrated person folds their knees against their chest. You'll thank me later.

• The reverse cowgirl. This is a variation of the cowgirl position, except that instead of facing the penetrating person, the penetrated person turns their back to them. They can thus control the depth by "bearing down" on their partner's genitals. Combined with small hip movements from the person below, this position works wonders.

• Anal penetration: now here's a practice where more modest penises really come into their own! As the anus is tighter than the vagina, even a smaller and slimmer than average penis can produce wonderful sensations with penetration alone.

Indulge in the 1001 possibilities of non-penetrative sex to give pleasure with a small penis

Small penis? No problem! When you consider that only 5% of people with a clitoris can reach orgasm through vaginal penetration alone, you understand why the ancient Greek gods, known for their liberated sexuality, had quite a modest one. So here's the good news of the day: you don't need a (big) penis to make your partner climax!

Although penetration (anal gold vaginal) is a source of pleasure, there are 1001 other techniques for having a great time together. Oral sex, mutual masturbation, sensual massages, grinding, sex toys… let your imagination and desires run free and you'll discover all the possibilities your body has to offer.

Talk about it! And you'll be able to enjoy more pleasure together with a small penis

If the size of your penis gives you a complex and creates mental blocks, don't hesitate to talk about it with your partner. You could even bring it up in a light-hearted way to take the drama out of it. A caring person will never mock the size of your penis and, on the contrary, will be curious to see what you can do with it… gold without! If you let the fear of judgement take over, you risk experiencing minor erection issues, which will make you even more stressed, and so on. Whatever the case, don't let apprehension ruin the moment — sex should always be a source of pleasure. And if the person in front of you doesn't appreciate your intimacy at its true value… next!

Try sheaths to give more pleasure

If you'd like to experience a longer or wider penis, know that there are enlarging sheaths available. They wrap around the penis to give both partners exquisite sensations. Penis pumps can also be an alternative if you'd like the feeling of having a larger penis for a few moments. Use them with moderation, however!

If you'd like to explore the subject further, I recommend the great video by Charles.co on the topic.

And above all, don't forget what my grandmother once told me: "better a small one that wriggles than a big one that snoozes!"

On that note, see you soon!