Comment donner du plaisir avec un petit pénis ?

How to give pleasure with a small penis?

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You or your partner have a small pipou and you are wondering how to give pleasure with a small penis. You are in the right place!


Because having a small one is far from being a fatality, we have gathered our best tips for living your sexuality in a fulfilling way while cherishing what Mother Nature has put between your legs. Let’s gooo!


What is a small penis?


Generally, a “small” penis is defined as one that does not reach 9 cm when erect. As a reminder, the average length of an erect penis is about 13 cm and the average depth of a vagina is 10 cm. There is no need to have an erection worthy of the greatest porn actors to please your partner. Especially since the vagina is stimulated by pressure (especially on the sides). So let's stop thinking that only long and wide penises have the monopoly on vaginal pleasure! It is possible to give pleasure with a small penis.


How to make your partner soar with a small penis?



Focus on the right movements


Stimulating the G-spot or the prostate is perfectly accessible for a person with a small penis because these points are located just a few centimeters from the entrance of the vagina and anus. Rather than back and forth motions, play with the pressure you exert with your penis using rocking movements. You will see that these small changes in your way of moving can make a big difference in giving pleasure with a small penis.


Favor positions with deep penetration

  • The anvil position. The penetrated person is on their back, legs on the shoulders of the penetrating person. In addition to allowing deep penetration, this position stimulates the G-spot, a total win! You can also try its variation, which allows for equally deep penetration: the penetrated person folds their knees against their chest. Let me know how it goes.

  • The reverse cowgirl. This is a variation of the cowgirl position, except that instead of facing the penetrating person, the penetrated person turns their back to them. They can thus manage the depth by “crushing” onto their partner's sex. Coupled with small hip movements from the person below, this position works wonders.

  • Anal penetration: here is a practice where more modest penises find their match! Since the anus is tighter than the vagina, even a smaller and thinner than average penis can provoke great sensations with just penetration.

Indulge in the 1001 possibilities of non-penetrative sex to give pleasure with a small penis


Small penis? No problem! When we know that only 5% of people with a clitoris can achieve orgasm solely through vaginal penetration, we understand why the Greek gods, known for their liberated sexuality, had such modest ones. So, here's the good news of the day: no need for a (big) penis to make your partner climax!


Although penetration (anal or vaginal) is a source of pleasure, there are 1001 other techniques to have a good time together. Oral sex, mutual masturbation, sensual massages, rubbing, sex toys... let your imagination and desires express themselves, and you'll discover all the possibilities that your body offers you.


Talk about it! And you can enjoy more pleasure together with a small penis


If the size of your penis makes you self-conscious and creates blockages, don't hesitate to talk about it with your partner. Even if it means joking about it to lighten the mood. A caring person will never make fun of the size of your penis and, on the contrary, will be curious to see what you can do with... or without it! If you let the fear of judgment overwhelm you, you might encounter some erection problems, which will make you even more stressed, etc. In any case, don't let apprehension spoil the moment; sexuality should always be a pleasure. And if the person in front of you doesn't appreciate your intimacy at its true value... next!


Try sleeves to give more pleasure


If you want to experience a longer or wider penis, know that there are enlarging sleeves. They envelop the penis to give both partners exquisite sensations. Penis pumps can also be an alternative if you want to feel like you have a bigger penis for a few moments. However, use them sparingly!


If you want to delve deeper into the subject, I recommend Charles.co's great video on the topic.


And above all, don't forget that, as my grandmother once told me, "better a small one that wriggles than a big one that snoozes!"



On that note, see you soon!



Céline

Céline


Hello, I'm Céline! I am a sexologist and writer for Passage du Désir. Holder of a DIU in Sexology, sexual medicine, and sex therapy, I share with you a multitude of tips to spice up your moments together or solo and guide you towards a fulfilling sexuality. 💜

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