Everything about the threesome

Ahhh, the threesome... perched at the top of French fantasies. Why does this practice fuel so many fantasies, and how do you go about making your threesome a success? We're covering the whole topic today!

Why does a threesome fuel so many fantasies?

Because a threesome shakes up the codes of relationships and traditional partnerships. Whether you're in a couple with a third wheel joining your fun, or single juggling two partners, a threesome is a bit like having your cake and eating it too... you know how it goes:). Having two people dedicated to our pleasure and vice versa — it intrigues, entices and excites!

How to find partners for a threesome?

The big question worth a thousand dollars 😉 Once you've decided to try a threesome, the part that can seem most puzzling is finding the partners. Whether you're single or in a couple, several options are available to you to embark on this three-way adventure.

• Download a specialist dating app such as Feeld or Joyce. The advantage? You're sure to match with people who are just as interested in a threesome as you are.
• Head to a swinger party. But what on earth is that? A swinger party is an event organised for the purpose of meeting people and exploring so-called "unconventional" sexual practices. The ideal spot to find enthusiastic partners for a threesome.
• Sound out your social circle — especially former crushes — who might be up for a merry ménage à trois. No question of approaching the ex whose break-up was as complicated as a Rubik's Cube. Ask a friend with benefits you know is open-minded if they fancy it — you'll have a better chance of getting a positive response to join you in a threesome.

Once the partner gold partners have been found, what next? Organise a coffee to see if there's a good vibe. Once that step is confirmed, set a date to live out your shared fantasy.

8 pieces of advice for a successful threesome

Communicate openly

The key to a successful threesome is open and honest communication between all participants. Discuss your expectations, boundaries and desires beforehand. Make sure everyone feels comfortable expressing their preferences and limits. Furthermore, if you are in a couple and taking part in a threesome with your partner, make sure you are both 100% on board and that neither partner is doing it "just to please the other". This could be devastating for your duo.

Contraception and protection

Before living out your fantasy, make sure everyone is up to date with their sexual health screenings. Ask to see the results or suggest going together. Also, regarding contraception, make sure everything is in order and that there is no risk of an unwanted pregnancy.

Set clear rules

Set the ground rules before starting your threesome. Permitted practices, physical and emotional boundaries, confidentiality — everything must be crystal clear.

Respect everyone's boundaries

If someone says "stop", it's stop! Respect the boundaries set by each participant in the threesome. Mutual respect is the foundation for keeping a positive atmosphere.

Regular check-in

Take breaks to check in on how everyone is feeling. A little communication pause during the action can avoid misunderstandings and ensure everyone is comfortable. It doesn't kill the mood and can even reignite the erotic tension!

Balance the attention

Make sure everyone feels valued and involved. No favouritism — we're here to give and receive pleasure as a trio. A balance in attention and interactions is the key.

Trust and consent

Trust and consent are key. Make sure everyone feels safe and comfortable with what is happening. Mutual trust is the cornerstone of your threesome experience.

Have fun!

Don't put pressure on yourselves! Just like with solo or partner sex, things can fall flat. In those cases, it's better to laugh it off and move on.

There you have it — you now know everything about threesomes! So, who will give it a try?