Alone gold with others, with gold without a toy, double penetration is both a divisive and fascinating subject. By exploring the many facets of this practice, you'll see that it can lead you to total ecstasy. I can already see you coming with your questions: "Is it for me?", "What do I do if I'm a lesbian?", "But I don't want a threesome!" Come on, let's debunk all of that together.
Option numero uno: el clássico
For many, double penetration refers to a person with a vulva being penetrated vaginally and anally by two penises. That's one option, little grasshopper, but it's far from the only one. Spoiler alert: you don't need a penis to penetrate. A finger (gold several), a tongue, and even the cucumber you just brought back from the market can all penetrate. Well, we don't necessarily recommend the cucumber — there are much better options. Whether you go for penis/finger, finger/finger, tongue/finger, gold penis/penis, we invite you to play with back-and-forth movements, depth and rhythm. The combination could well be explosive! Bonus for the finger/finger combo: use your thumb and index finger and massage the area between the two. That's where the perineal sponge is, and it's just waiting to be stimulated!
Using a toy to reach the heights
Better than a cucumber (yes, I had a Greek salad for lunch) there are toys. And guess what, there are plenty of options for double penetration. Anal plug, dildo-non-vibrant" target="_blank">dildo, strap-on dildo... the list is long and ever-growing. So how do you choose, you ask? Well, it all depends on your kinks, your sensitivity, and your partner (thanks, Sherlock). If you've never tried anal sex, for example, it's advised to start gently with a dildo in the vagina and a finger in the anus. The next step could be to try a plug, but make sure you choose and use it properly. G-spot, deep spot, rectum, and even the cervix... It's up to you to decide how far you want to dive into the ocean of pleasure. 🐠
No pene...no pene!
If you're not 100% relaxed and comfortable with your partner(s), double penetration can be uncomfortable or even painful. We can never say it enough: every sexual act must come from mutual and informed consent. And never forget that penetration is not an end in itself. Whether we're talking about heterosexual or homosexual relationships, you're never obliged to penetrate or be penetrated to experience maximum pleasure.
Lou ✨
Hello, I'm Lou! With a degree in Human and Social Sciences, I've been interested in sexuality topics for several years. Following various training programmes, notably with sexologist Mathilde Magnien, Passage du Désir called on me to create articles on topics relating to sex, love and relationships. My motto? Opening up the conversation about sexual intimate essentials, in a light-hearted, fun and caring tone. 💜
