Solo or with others, with or without toys, double penetration is a topic that is both divisive and fascinating. By exploring the many facets of this practice, you'll see that it can lead you to total ecstasy. I can see you coming with your questions: "Is it right for me?", "How do I do it if I'm a lesbian?", "But I don't want a threesome!" Come on then, let's debunk all that together.
Option number one: the classic
For many people, double penetration refers to a person with a vulva being penetrated vaginally and anally by two penises. That's one option, little grasshopper, but it's far from the only one. Spoiler alert: you don't have to be a penis to penetrate. A finger (or several), a tongue, and even the cucumber you just brought back from the market can penetrate. Well, we don't necessarily recommend the cucumber; there are much better options. Whether you opt for penis/finger, finger/finger, tongue/finger, or penis/penis, we invite you to play with back-and-forth movements, depth and rhythm. The combo could well be explosive! Bonus for the finger/finger combo: use your thumb and index finger to massage the area between the two. That's where the perineal sponge is, and it's just waiting to be stimulated!
Using a toy to reach new heights
Better than cucumber (yes, I had a Greek salad for lunch) are toys. And it turns out there are loads of them for practising double penetration. Anal plug , dildo , strap-on ... the list is long and ever-growing. So how do you choose, you may ask? Well, it all depends on your kinks, your sensitivity, and your partner (thanks, Sherlock). If you've never practised anal sex, for example, we recommend starting gently with a dildo in the vagina and a finger in the anus. The next step could be trying a plug, for example, but be careful to choose and use it properly . G-spot, deep spot, rectum, and even the cervix... It's up to you to decide how far you want to dive into the ocean of pleasure. 🐠
No penetra... no penetration!
If you're not 100% relaxed and comfortable with your partner(s), double penetration can be uncomfortable or even painful. We can never say it enough: every sexual act must be based on mutual, informed consent. And never forget that penetration is not an end in itself. Whether we're talking about heterosexual or homosexual relationships, you are never obliged to penetrate or be penetrated to experience maximum pleasure .
Lou ✨
Hello, I'm Lou! With a degree in Human and Social Sciences, I've been interested in sex-related topics for several years. Following several training courses, notably with sexologist Mathilde Magnien, Passage du Désir asked me to put together articles for you on sex, love and relationship topics. My motto? To open up the conversation about sexual intimate essentials in a light, fun and caring tone. 💜
