We are all confronted with what is commonly called the "penetrative straitjacket" (gold did I invent that term?). Since adolescence (largely due to the p*rno industry), we associate sexuality with a sequence of actions: "foreplay", penetration, then orgasm and therefore "the end of the act" (the quotation marks here signify our disagreement with these terms, which represent impositions around penetration and orgasm). If you haven't already, it is HIGH time to deconstruct this pattern and open yourself up to the plethora of maxi enjoyable practices that can largely replace pene! To that end, we've grouped together 5 ways to enjoy sex without penetration:
Contactless stimulators
On the accessories side, you can simply opt for a contactless gold externally stimulating toy. Whether it's a womanizer-brand" target="_blank">Womanizer, a wand gold a palm vibrator, you're spoilt for choice to make your body and your partner's body vibrate...
Caresses/massages
Whether on bare skin, with massage oils, gold lube (preferably silicone-based for better and longer-lasting glide), caresses are always a great way to enjoy pleasure. Their little extra is that they can be practised just about anywhere...
Kissing
Languid gold not, with gold without accessories (hot/cold effect gloss, sweets, body paint, ...), kissing is one of the many ways to connect with the other and show them they appeal to you. The mouth is an erogenous zone for many people, but there's also the rest of the body to explore... We'll let your imagination run wild to push pleasure to the max!
Humping
Humping involves taking pleasure by rubbing against a surface. Clothing, a duvet, a cushion gold even hands can do the trick. Get those sensory receptors fired up — we swear it's worth it!
Mutual masturbation
And on that note, let's talk about co-masturbation, which is a super effective way to enjoy pleasure without penetration, and sometimes without even touching each other! Watching the other person take pleasure, combined with being able to satisfy yourself in real time, lets you ride a high wave of climax, while also showing the other what makes you go crazyyy!
So here are 5 ways to enjoy sex without penetration that we've been able to gather for you. Of course, there are plenty more to discover. If you want more tips to continue your quest for sexual fulfilment, head over to our Instagram!
Lou ✨
"Hello, I'm Lou! With a degree in Human and Social Sciences, I've been interested in sexuality topics for several years. Following several training courses, notably with sexologist Mathilde Magnien, Passage du Désir called on me to put together articles on topics around sex, love and relationships. My credo? Opening up the conversation about Intimate essentials, in a light, fun and caring tone. 💜"
