We all come up against what is commonly known as the "penetration script" (or did I just make that term up?). Since adolescence (largely thanks to the p*rno industry), we've associated sexuality with a sequence of actions: "foreplay", penetration, then orgasm and therefore "the end of the act" (the quotes here signal our disagreement with these terms, which symbolise pressure to penetrate and to orgasm). If you haven't already, it is HIGH time to deconstruct this script and open yourself up to the wealth of incredibly satisfying practices that can more than replace penetration! To that end, we've rounded up 5 ways to enjoy sex without penetration:
Contactless stimulators
When it comes to accessories, you can simply opt for a contactless or externally stimulating toy. Whether it's a womanizer-brand" target="_blank">Womanizer, a wand, or a pebble vibrator, you're spoilt for choice when it comes to making your body and your partner's body vibrate...
Caresses/massages
Whether on bare skin, with massage oils, or even lube (preferably silicone-based for a smoother, longer-lasting glide), caresses are always a great way to experience pleasure. The bonus? They can be enjoyed just about anywhere...
Kissing
Languid or not, with or without accessories (warming/cooling gloss, sweets, body paint, ...), kissing is one of the many ways to connect with someone and show them you fancy them. The mouth is an erogenous zone for many people, but there's also the rest of the body to explore... We'll let your imagination run wild to take pleasure to the max!
Humping
Humping involves taking pleasure by rubbing against a surface. Clothing, a duvet, a pillow, or even hands can do the trick. Get your sensory receptors warmed up — trust us, it's well worth it!
Mutual masturbation
And on that note, we come to co-masturbation, which is an incredibly effective way to experience pleasure without penetration, and sometimes without even touching each other! Watching your partner take pleasure, combined with the ability to satisfy yourself in real time, lets you both ride a high wave of enjoyment — and show each other exactly what drives you crazyyy!
Here are 5 ways to enjoy sex without penetration that we've gathered for you. Of course, there are plenty more to discover. If you want more tips to continue your journey towards sexual fulfilment, head to our Instagram!
Lou ✨
Hello, I'm Lou! With a degree in Human and Social Sciences, I've been passionate about sexuality topics for several years. Following various training courses, including with sexologist Mathilde Magnien, Passage du Désir called on me to create articles on sexuality, love, and relationships. My motto? Opening up the conversation about sexual intimate essentials, in a light, fun, and caring tone. 💜
