Chatterbutt BDSM game

Dare to talk about your fantasies without taboo
Explore BDSM at your own pace
Consent and boundaries at the heart of the game

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Details & key features

60 question and action cards
3 progressive levels of intimacy
6 sensory action cards
BDSM glossary + Joker card included
Designed in France, made in Italy

Description

Let’s lay our cards on the table

Chatterbutt BDSM by Gender Games is the game that turns the things you don’t dare say into a real conversation.

Created by Léa, sex therapist and founder of Merci Beaucul, it uses 60 cards to explore domination, submission, role play, dirty talk and many other BDSM practices together. The question cards get straight to the point: they invite you to go beyond a simple yes or no and reveal what you like, what intrigues you and what’s off-limits.

Three levels of intimacy let you progress gradually, from lighter topics to more intimate territory, at everyone’s own pace. The action cards open the door to trying things out once the conversation gets going. A Joker card lets you skip a question without having to explain why, because consent isn’t optional here: it’s a rule of the game.

The result: you really talk, listen to each other and come away with a much better idea of what you want, whether you’re on your own or with others.

For everyone, and thoughtfully designed

Whether you’re a complete beginner or an experienced practitioner, this game suits everyone, with no prior knowledge or unnecessary jargon required. The included glossary demystifies BDSM terms, from safewords and aftercare to kinks, so you won’t have to reach for your phone halfway through a game.

The pause cards give you a breather between more intense questions, help you reconnect and keep the atmosphere supportive, even when discussions get heated. The game works just as well with a partner as with friends, at a munch or a hen party, with no expectation that anyone will act on what they discuss.

Designed in France by an independent feminist and queer publisher and made in Italy, it’s an original, locally designed and ethical gift for any occasion. In short, it’s the kind of game you’ll keep, bring out again and recommend without hesitation.

The box contains

50 question cards, divided into 3 levels of intimacy to adapt the intensity of the topics covered
6 action cards, to explore new sensations and experiences
1 Joker card, for the cards you don't want to answer (consent in everything!)
Reminder cards, to reconnect and step away from the excitement of the game for a moment
1 glossary to explain BDSM terms (dirty talk, kink, safeword, vanilla, aftercare…)

Our expert’s opinion

Violette Berger

Writer & sexuality expert

This game asks the real questions — the ones we often avoid out of embarrassment or laziness. The 3 levels of intimacy are very well calibrated; you're not thrown in at the deep end without a lifeline. It also works very well solo, as a tool for introspection to better understand what attracts you to BDSM before even discussing it with someone. A rare game that speaks to the intellect as much as to the senses.