Hello, my lovely chatterboxes, 

(we’re feeling a bit poetic today, in case you hadn’t noticed)

When we talk about "making noise" during sex, we mean everything from sweet nothings to moans and cries. It’s all still taboo, even though voicing your pleasure can really enrich the erotic experience for everyone involved. 

Let’s look at a few reasons to let go and make some noise. 

Communicate pleasure through sound

Making noise during sex is a form of non-verbal (or semi-verbal) communication. A sigh, a groan or a moan can tell your partner or partners what you like. It helps avoid misunderstandings and lets you adjust the pace without having to put everything into words.

Heighten arousal

Hearing your partner orgasm or make sounds of pleasure can be incredibly arousing. Sounds create a more intense atmosphere, deepening the physical and emotional connection. For some people, they can even trigger an orgasm.

Let go of inhibitions

In a society where pleasure is still often stigmatised, daring to make noise means giving yourself permission to feel your desire fully and own it. It can help you overcome shyness and build confidence in yourself and your partner.

Turn on your audience

Some people are particularly responsive to sounds (it’s called sonophilia). For them, the sounds of pleasure are just as important as caresses. So, if your partner loves hearing you, why not treat them to a private concert? 

Encourage your partner

Voicing your pleasure is also a way to reassure and encourage your partner. It shows that their "efforts" are appreciated, which can boost both their desire and their satisfaction.

What if I’m too shy?

No pressure! Everyone feels differently about making noise during sex. If you want to try it but feel self-conscious, start with little moans or whispers and turn up the volume at your own pace. What matters is that everyone feels comfortable. And as we say where I come from, slow and steady wins the race. 

BOTTOM LINE: making noise during sex is about celebrating pleasure without holding back. So, if the mood takes you… 🎤🔥

(And of course, always check that everyone involved is comfortable and consenting.)