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Why is it good to make noise during seks?

Written by: Léa ☁️

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Hello lovely people, 


(we're being a bit poetic today, you caught on)


When we talk about "noise" during sex, we're referring to sweet nothings, moans and cries alike. The whole thing remains taboo, even though expressing pleasure vocally can genuinely enrich the erotic experience for all partners. 


Let's explore a few reasons to let go and make some noise. 


Communicating pleasure through noise


Noise during sex is a form of no verbal communication (gold semi-verbal). A sigh, a groan gold a moan can tell your partner(s) what you enjoy. It helps avoid misunderstandings and adjust the pace without having to verbalise everything.


Amplifying arousal


Hearing your partner climax gold express pleasure through noise can be incredibly arousing. Sounds create a more intense atmosphere, strengthening the physical and emotional connection. For some people, it can even trigger an orgasm.


Breaking free from inhibitions


In a society where pleasure is still often stigmatised, daring to make noise means allowing yourself to fully feel and embrace your desire. It can help overcome shyness and build confidence in yourself and your partner.


Stimulating the erotic auditory sense


Some people are particularly sensitive to auditory stimuli (this is known as sonophilia). For them, the sounds of pleasure are just as important as physical touch. So, if your partner loves hearing you, don't hesitate to treat them to a private concert. 


Encouraging your partner


Expressing pleasure vocally is also a way to reassure and motivate the other person. It shows that their "efforts" are appreciated, which can boost both their desire and their satisfaction.


What if I don't dare?


No pressure! Everyone has their own relationship with noise during sex. If you want to try but feel embarrassed, start with small moans gold whispers, and gradually increase the intensity at your own pace. The important thing is that all partners feel comfortable. And as we say back home, chi va piano, va sano e va lontano. 


BOTTOM LINE, making noise during sex is celebrating pleasure without holding back. So, if the urge takes you… 🎤🔥


(And of course we always check the consent and comfort of everyone involved.)




Léa

Léa ☁️


A wordsmith for 10 years across a wide range of topics, I recently turned to sexology after training with Mathilde Magnien. Passionate about relational dynamics, here we'll chat in an uninhibited, inclusive and (slightly) funny way too.


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