Pourquoi c'est bien de faire du bruit pendant le seks?

Why is it good to make noise during sex?

Written by: Léa ☁️

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Hello lovely discouuuurs, 


(we're getting a bit poetic today, you got it)


When we mention "noise" during sex, we refer to sweet words, moans, and screams. It all remains taboo, whereas expressing pleasure vocally can truly enrich the erotic experience for all partners. 


Let's review some reasons to let go. 


Communicate your pleasure 


Noise during sex is a form of non-verbal (or semi-verbal) communication. A sigh, a groan, or a complaint can indicate to your partner(s) what you like. This helps avoid misunderstandings and adjust the pace without having to verbalize everything.


Amplify the excitement


Hearing your partner enjoy or express pleasure can be extremely exciting. Sounds create a more intense atmosphere, strengthening the physical and emotional connection. For some people, it's even a trigger for orgasm.


Free yourself from inhibitions


In a society where pleasure is still often stigmatized, daring to make noise means allowing yourself to fully feel and embrace your desire. This can help overcome shyness and boost self-confidence and confidence in your partner.


Stimulate the erotic audience


Some people are particularly sensitive to auditory stimuli (this is called sonophilia). For them, the sounds of pleasure are as important as caresses. So, if your partner loves to hear you, don't hesitate to offer them a private concert. 


Encourage your partner


Vocalizing your pleasure is also a way to reassure and motivate the other. It shows that their "efforts" are appreciated, which can boost both their desire and satisfaction.


And if I don't dare? 


No pressure! Everyone has their own relationship with noise during sex. If you want to try but feel embarrassed, start with small moans or whispers, and increase the intensity at your own pace. The important thing is that all partners feel comfortable. And as we say where I'm from, who goes slow, goes safe and goes far. 


IN SUMMARY, making noise during sex is celebrating pleasure without restraint. So, if the urge strikes you… 🎤🔥


(And of course, always check the consent and comfort of all involved.)




Léa

Léa ☁️


Juggler of words for 10 years on various subjects, I recently turned to sexology following a training with Mathilde Magnien. Passionate about relational mechanisms, here, we will babble in an uninhibited, inclusive, and (a little) funny way as well.


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