allégorie d'un orgasme

We tell you everything, everything, everything about the dry orgasm

Written by: Léa ☁️

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Aaaaah, the dry orgasm! That mysterious Grail of pleasure that makes the curious fantasize and the initiated blush.


Imagine: a fireworks display of sensations... without taking off - too - quickly.


Intrigued?


Hold on, today we demystify this phenomenon as exciting as an erotic thriller (option fewer culprits, more sighs).


Chapter 1: The dry orgasm "for dummies"


You are savoring the dessert of your life.

Normally, at the last bite, it's over, the magic stops.

But here, miracle: the dessert regenerates like in a video game. Got the picture? Great! The dry orgasm is exactly that.

  • For people with a penis: the entirety of the "usual" sensations of an orgasm, but without the "final splash".

Yes, it's like sneezing silently.

Powerful, yet discreet.

  • For people with a vulva: Some already experience it without knowing. It's called luck... which allows chaining waves of pleasure like episodes of a Netflix series.


Chapter 2: The why and how


Little course in erotic mechanics:

In the common imagination, orgasm = ejaculation = end of recess.

But with the dry orgasm, we uncouple pleasure from the conclusion.


Techniques to master the dry orgasm


  1. The "Stop & Go" method
    We climb, we brush the point of no return... and we slow down. Repeat until your body understands that no, it's not a joke.
  2. Pleasure yoga
    Inspired by tantrism, we breathe, we concentrate, and we circulate energy like a DJ mixing beats.
    Result? An orgasm that lasts longer than a Rihanna song.
  3. Prostate passion
    People with a penis, if you think your G-spot is unfindable, think again. It's just... geographically surprising.
    To explore with delicacy (and a good lubricant).


Chapter 3: The superpowers of the dry orgasm


Bye-Bye, refractory phase.


No more need for a post-coital nap. You can chain like a pleasure marathoner (without the soreness).


100% recyclable energy


Some traditions say that keeping your vital energy makes you more creative... or at least less tired. To test before a romantic date!


A new sensory world


Without the "final explosion", we discover unsuspected nuances of pleasure.

Like going from a box wine to a vintage one.


Chapter 4: Traps to avoid

  • Forcing too much → It's supposed to be pleasure, not a math exam.

  • Forgetting your partner → The dry orgasm is even better with two (like tacos).

  • Wanting to master it in one night → Even Casanova had to practice.

The dry orgasm is a bit like learning to ride a bike without training wheels: at first, you're afraid of falling, but once you get the hang of it, you wonder why you didn't do it sooner.


As with everything related to desire, we encourage self-listening, self-care (and all types of care), and not giving in to injunctions. 


See you soon loves.



Léa

Léa ☁️


Word juggler for 10 years on various topics, I recently turned to sexology after training with Mathilde Magnien. Passionate about relational mechanisms, here, we will chat in an uninhibited, inclusive, and (a little) funny way too.


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