Sexting, also known as the art of maintaining desire from a distance

Day at work, grandma who has thrown her back out.. The reasons that keep your partner away from you can be numerous. And of course, it's generally the moment when your libido isn't ready to take a break.. daamn! The planets are not aligning in your favor, but you still have a few cards to play: notably the sexts. The ultimate anti-frustration weapon!

Every good thing takes a little practice.. Before becoming an expert in the matter, I will give you some tips to avoid a clumsy sext from becoming the anecdote that sticks with you for the rest of the year.. Don't thank me, it's my pleasure.

The good reasons to sext 

It's ideal for long-distance relationships, training periods away from home, or even everyday life to get your partner in the mood when the time for reunion after the workday has come.

It's also an outstanding "routine-breaker". After 3, 10, or 25 years of relationship, being directly connected to your partner's libido still has the same effect. The sweetness of love words is nice, we're not saying otherwise, but a bit of spice in the middle of all that.. It's a big YES!!

"We've never done anything like that, I can't tell them that I want it".. It's not always easy to whisper in your partner's ear that you're dreaming of an anilingus in the middle of a relationship, without ever having given signs that you might enjoy it. The sext can be an excellent way to introduce the idea of a new experience!

Instructions for caliente sexts 

You know, I don't think there are good or bad situations.. If I had to summarize sexuality today, I would say it's first of all about experiences! People reaching out to each other, discovering sensations, at a time when we thought it was no longer possible..

The sext is accessible to everyone, but for those who haven't yet dared to take the plunge, I share with you some tips to prevent the spark from fading:

• Keep a bit of mystery but in small doses. A message too vague and it's a guaranteed smirk on your sweetheart's face, with a response more likely to be "???" than "🔥🔥🔥"

• Call a spade a spade. Don't be afraid to put words on your desires: "I want your tongue on my turlu.." .. The intention is easily guessed but in terms of excitement, we're still far from it.

• You know what you want but can't find the words.. Try GIFs! A picture is sometimes worth a thousand words.

• Or you have the words but it burns your lips (or rather your fingers) to write it.. You don't dare! Emojis are your friends.. "Mmh, I've only had one desire since this morning.. To nibble on the tip of your 🍒".

The traps to avoid

• Avoid using a work phone as much as possible. If you switch to the latest iPhone and your old work tool ends up in the hands of the new intern without you having thought to delete your sensitive data, it could quickly become embarrassing!

• Better check the recipient twice.. Your mother probably prefers not to imagine what makes you fantasize.

The little extra of sexting?

Unlike the desire to share a hot nude with your significant other or current partner, which will require you to find a place where you won't risk being caught, the sext will pass much more easily incognito!

You can, without being noticed, whip out your most naughty pen in the middle of a subway car, in the dentist's waiting room, or even in your open space.. Even the office gossip queen won't notice a thing.

Go ahead, my little love scribes, it's your turn to play. Let's go heat up your partner with some crazy sexts!

Oh, and I almost forgot.. To combine business with pleasure, you can also slip away next time with a little connected toy. Raise the temperature and activate your partner's We Vibe via the app, incognito orgasms are yours, this little gem is ultra-silent..