Kama Sutra: which position is right for you?

Hear ye, hear ye, gymnasts (or aspiring gymnasts, as most of us are),

4 syllables, one evocative word : ka   -ma-su-tra.

Perhaps you immediately picture acrobatic contortions and entwined bodies in positions that defy gravity. But not at all...

Far from being a manual just for the super-flexible or the experienced, the Kama Sutra is, above all, a celebration of connection, intimacy and pleasure in all its forms.

We’re pretty convinced there’s a position, a sensation and a spark for everyone, whatever your body, your desires or your ability to do downward-facing dog.

Come on, let’s forget about performance pressure once again. This article is here simply to guide you towards experiences that enrich your intimacy, with humour, kindness and a touch of daring. Ready to discover the position that will set your senses — and your partner’s, or just your own if you’re flying solo — alight?

Scenario no. 1: the cosy companion

When love means tenderness and closeness

Who’s it for? Lovers of rainy Sundays, fans of endless tenderness and anyone who values emotional and physical connection without fuss or superhuman effort. It’s for people seeking maximum comfort in shared intimacy, whatever their body shape.

The mood: You want to laze around, whisper sweet nothings, feel your partner’s skin against yours and enjoy a feeling of complete depth...

The position: spooning 

It’s as effective as it is simple. This position is the very definition of relaxed intimacy. The partners lie on their sides, one behind the other, face-to-face or back-to-back. It allows for gentle penetration (vaginal or anal, or with sex toys) and an unmatched closeness.

Why is it your perfect match?

• Accessible to everyone: spooning is the queen of inclusivity. It suits all body shapes, tired bodies, bodies in recovery and bodies that prefer to take things slowly.

• Maximum comfort: ideal for long sessions of caressing, gentle exploration or simply prolonging intimacy after sex.

• Deep connection: there’s plenty of skin-to-skin contact, inviting caresses and kisses on the neck, and fostering a sense of safety and belonging. Your hands are free to explore, massage or hold a toy.

Our tip: Make the moment even more special with a warming edible massage oil . Apply it to your partner's body for a sensual prelude that heightens the pleasure of touch. A small cushion tucked under the head or between the legs can make things more comfortable.

Scenario no. 2: the thrill of letting go

When eye contact meets desire and intensity

Who’s it for? Dynamic duos who love looking into each other’s eyes, playing with control and surrender, and seeking emotional or physical intensity. It’s also a wonderful position for lesbian couples, for using sex toys and for anyone who enjoys a feeling of fullness.

The mood: You’re craving passion, depth and intense eye contact that makes every movement electric. You like to ride the wave of your desires and let your partner’s energy carry you away.

The position: the seated Andromache (a variation on "vertical face-to-face")

In this variation on the Andromache position, one partner sits with their legs slightly apart. The other sits facing them, with their legs wrapped around their waist or resting on the bed, turned towards them. It’s a position where your eyes keep meeting and non-verbal communication reaches new heights. The partner on top has complete control over the pace, depth and angle, offering an almost unrivalled freedom to experiment.

Why is it your perfect match?

• Visual and emotional intensity: constant eye contact and the closeness of your faces heighten both sensation and emotional intimacy.

• Control and exploration: the partner on top can vary the angle of penetration or stimulation, helping both partners discover new pleasure spots. This position is especially good for clitoral stimulation or using toys.

• Versatility: easily adapted to different body shapes and to using strap-on dildos or vibrators, it offers an intense, personalised experience.

Our tip: To take the experience up a notch, try placing a positioning cushion under the seated partner’s bottom. It can adjust the angle and make things more comfortable for deeper sensations.

Scenario no. 3: the sensory explorer

When curiosity leads to seventh heaven

Who’s it for?  Anyone who loves breaking out of a routine, couples eager for new sensations, or those who want to rediscover pleasure from a fresh angle. With a little help, it’s an invitation for every body to experiment, even if you’re not especially flexible.

The mood: You want to surprise and be surprised, discover unexpected pleasure spots and add a little excitement to the everyday.

The position: the bridge of sighs 

It offers a radically different angle for penetration or stimulation. One partner lies on their back with their legs raised and their feet resting on the other’s shoulders (or simply draws their knees towards their chest). The "active" partner is above them, leaning in for penetration or stimulation. The secret? A small cushion or a few pillows tucked under the lying partner’s hips raises their pelvis, creating a deeper, more stimulating angle.

Why is it your perfect match?

• A fresh angle for penetration and stimulation: Raising the hips changes everything! It allows more direct g-spot stimulation (during vaginal penetration) or a different kind of pressure during anal penetration or when using sex toys.

• Effortless intensity: Contrary to what you might think, this position doesn’t require much flexibility if you use supports. All the pleasure, without the pain!

• Eye contact and connection: your faces are close, making it easy to share passionate kisses and keep communicating about what feels good.

Our tip: a good lube is ESSENTIAL for this position to maximise comfort and sensation. Experiment with the height of the support beneath the pelvis until you find an angle that takes you somewhere else.

Scenario no. 4: peeling back the layers of sensation

When pleasure is savoured slowly, alone or together

Who’s it for? Lovers of ice cream and the art of caressing, those who savour every moment and want to prolong pleasure without the pressure of an immediate ‘climax’. Ideal for exploring each other’s bodies or for shared or solo masturbation.

The mood: You have time and want to touch, feel and connect with your own body or your partner’s at a languid pace.

The position: the lazy lotus (a variation on "69")

First things first: this isn’t the acrobatic 69 you’re imagining! The "lazy lotus" is a comfortable variation on giving each other oral sex at the same time or mutual masturbation. The partners lie head-to-toe, either on their backs facing each other for oral sex, or positioned to give each other comfortable access for mutual masturbation or using a sex toy on the other person. The idea is to take away any strain and focus entirely on the sensations.

Why is it your perfect match?

• Heightened oral or tactile pleasure: this position gives you easy, comfortable access to erogenous zones, without fatigue or cramp. It’s the perfect invitation to explore fellatio, cunnilingus or anal stimulation.

• Non-verbal connection: not looking directly at each other lets you focus on sounds, scents and sensations, creating a little bubble of sensory pleasure.

• Versatility: perfect for duos who enjoy giving each other oral sex at the same time, but also for shared masturbation, with each person exploring their own body while the other is beside them.

Our tip: We're back with the old pillow (or bolster) between the legs trick: it can make the position even more comfortable. Try experimenting with vibrating rings to heighten the sensations for both partners.

Scenario no. 5: a meeting of souls (and bodies)

For an all-consuming closeness

Who’s it for? Partners seeking to feel completely at one, those who want to feel every inch of each other and find a deep, almost spiritual connection beyond the physical act. Perfect whenever you’re craving tenderness and closeness.

The mood: You want to lose yourself in each other and feel completely united, as if your bodies were one.

The position: the heart-to-heart cuddle 

In other words, tenderness and togetherness personified. The partners face each other with their legs entwined (like the "missionary position", but with much more body contact) and their arms wrapped tightly around each other. The aim is to maximise skin-to-skin contact and feel enveloped by the other person. Whether for penetration or simply a moment of intense post-coital tenderness, it’s perfect for reconnecting.

Why is it your perfect match?

• Maximum intimacy: every part of your bodies touches, creating a unique feeling of oneness. It’s a wonderful position for deep kisses, full-body caresses and intimate whispers.

• Emotional comfort: this position brings a feeling of safety and love, strengthening your emotional bond.

• Adaptability: it’s gentle, physically undemanding and easy to adapt to every body shape and level of flexibility.

Our recommendation: to make the experience even more intoxicating, try synchronising your breathing. A good water-based lube can add glide and heighten the pleasure of touch. It’s also the perfect position for falling asleep after a deeply intimate moment.

Fancy mixing things up?

Beyond the purely physical, exploring the Kama Sutra means exploring your relationship, desires and boundaries. It’s an invitation to communicate, listen to each other (and yourself!) and be a little bolder.

We firmly believe that pleasure is a universal right, open to everyone, whatever their preferences, bodies or experiences. Far from being a dusty old book, the Kama Sutra is a wonderful way to rediscover the art of loving and being loved.

AND DID YOU KNOW that much of the original Kama Sutra is devoted to the psychology of relationships, the art of seduction and how to live a fulfilling, balanced life? 

We’ll leave you with that

Kisses, kisses