Gynecological follow-up is a mandatory step in the lives of many people. However, while many of us are comfortable with a professional examining our intimate parts, this is not the case for everyone. Does just imagining that dear speculum (not a great name, right!?) make you anxious? Rest assured, you are not alone! To minimize the stress generated by this essential appointment in the life of a person with a uterus, we will guide you with some tips on how to choose your gynecologist.
Professionalism first
The first thing you notice about a healthcare professional is their profile on Doctolib. Check the person's profile and look at the reviews of their services. This will allow you to know if patients have had a good experience in a fairly objective manner. A little tip: don't judge by the photo, it doesn't mean anything!
A person you can trust
The second step is the appointment. This is when you will be able to feel a certain connection with the person. Do they make you feel comfortable? Do you feel confident? Do you feel judged when you talk about your intimate life and potential issues? A good gynecologist should be reassuring and caring in all circumstances. You should feel comfortable and free to talk about your sexuality.
Word of mouth
Be wary of word of mouth. Indeed, a gynecologist may be suitable for one person but not for another. It depends on your needs, your sensitivity, your traumas... The best thing is to form your own opinion for yourself.
These tips should help you find a suitable gynecologist. If you have tips or experiences to share on this vast subject, drop your comments, as we used to say in 2002!
Lou ✨
Hello, I'm Lou! With a degree in Human and Social Sciences, I have been interested in sex-related topics for a few years. After several trainings, notably with sexologist Mathilde Magnien, Passage du Désir reached out to me to create articles on topics like sex, love, or relationships. My motto? To open up conversations about sexual well-being, in a light, fun, and caring manner. 💜
