Why do we have more desire in the summer?

Summer is coming.. Lemonade stretched out on a deckchair in the sun. Beach days or barbecues with friends! We dream about it all year long, but our desires don't stop there.. We want it to swing!

With the only concerns being the difficult decision of whether or not to put a slice of lemon on your cocktail or the choice of swimsuit to avoid some weird tan lines.. We have all the time to listen to our body and give in to all its whims. Mmh that Greek god.goddess butt in those shorts, come over here.. You know where I'm going with this! No need to wait for the sun and degrees to get fired up.. In summer, libido reaches a whole new level for many of us! But why?

“Off” mode activated for our brain

One of the first factors influencing our libido is our emotions! Stress, in particular, plays a huge role in our love barometer. We may love our partner with all our strength, or be highly sensitive to the charm of our crush, but when worries are out, the first idea that comes to mind is generally not to jump on him.her.

But when we leave the office, entrust the kids to grandparents, or embark on a solo trip, for example, far from our daily concerns, the brain switches to “off” mode and stress plummets. A healthy mind in a healthy body, that's all it takes for our body to make a strong comeback of caliente desires!

Moreover, there's no need to wait for summer to block stress. It seems meditation is a real gem for a more zen daily life. Plus, there's no need to block a monstrous time slot in your schedule. No need to push your body to its limits to indulge in it either! Petit Bambou, a true guru of self-love and letting go, is an app to discover if you want to try the experience!

Hormones, aka the N+1 of your desire

Hormones play a major role in our love life and sexuality. They regulate a lot of things, including our libido. For example, we use the crackling and moisturizing passion fruit massage mousse for a few caresses. And hop.. our body starts secreting serotonin to immediately plunge us into the mood. It's called “the pleasure hormone” but it's actually a neurotransmitter..

In short, you are certainly not here for a science lesson. What is really important to know is that it is present in greater quantities during the summer. We say thank you to the lengthening days and more brightness. It's thanks to that our desire will go through the roof and we will seek fun under the sheets this summer. And if you haven't yet set your sights on your summer partner, maybe it's time to let destiny guide you:

The Summer Dress Code

The weather is nice, it's hot, it's time to bring out your best summer outfits! And with heat comes lighter, shorter clothes, and thus more visible bodies. Even though our imagination does a great job of guessing the silhouette hidden under thick sweaters in winter, it's much simpler to see than to imagine. Yes, yes, we've noticed that you find the server attractive in their summer "uniform," that's what... 3 times you've asked if they're sure they don't have a watermelon mojito?

It's perfectly human, visual stimulation plays a huge role in our desire, so as long as your glances don't cause discomfort and it doesn't become insistent and one-sided... there's no reason to deprive yourself of eye contact to test the waters with your new crush.

And if it does bite the hook and promises to escalate, I suggest taking a look at our tips for getting intimate when it's hot... Enough to avoid overheating, don't thank me!

It might also be the time to stock up on products that will be your freshness allies so you don't have to think twice before getting into steamy cuddles... "It's so hot that I'm not sure I want to" will be nothing more than a bad memory!

Among my little favorites, I suggest you try or rediscover:

• The hot-cold effect gloss for futuristic oral games with its adorable strawberry taste

• The cold effect lubricant by YESforLOVE. A perfect glide and with a water base, it is compatible with your toys and with condoms... No reason then to miss out on your summer conquests!

• And if you're not in the mood to date this summer, or if you want to have fun in a duo (or more) with a toy, you can opt for glass dildos like the Däo or the Loa... placed in the fridge a few minutes before playing, you won't regret the delicious cooling sensations they will provide