The month of June has arrived, and indeed the temperature is rising, not just under the sheets.. So how can you have sex without suffering too much from the heat?
With your partner's lighter clothes and bodies becoming more apparent, desire skyrockets, but the idea of a close embrace ending in aquaplaning is less appealing.. If you're wondering how to experience a hot summer (but not too hot) and how to have sex when it's warm, follow the guide for our top tips to try!
1- Cool cuddles for more pleasure
When the thermometer is off the charts and you feel like your body is about to implode from the heat, it's generally not the time when the desire to play is strongest. The game becomes much simpler and enjoyable at night when the degrees give you a little respite. If you're the lucky owner of a pool, it's also an unbeatable way to not suffer from the temperature. If you opt for this tip, keep in mind that being immersed in water reduces natural lubrication, watch out for friction!
2- Use your toy as a cooling ally
The desire for a solo session arises, and it's so hot that you think twice? On our side, we see rather good reasons not to deprive yourself. First, if some of your toys are made of glass, you can place them in the fridge for a few minutes. The cold will allow you to continue playing, with the most refreshing sensations! Secondly, playing with your penis or clitoris is excellent for health: reduces stress, improves sleep, keeps your heart in great shape, etc.
3 - The choice of positions
A missionary during a heatwave? No thanks, or maybe for a minute max if you're feeling adventurous! But if the urge to prolong the pleasure tickles you, there are positions that limit contact areas between partners.. We recommend opting for the cowgirl or the scissor position. This way, you can avoid exchanging heat between bodies and don't have to put your sexuality on hold all summer.
4 - The fan.. It's essential!
Putting your libido on hold all summer? No way! It's the season of fantasies, no need to give up on them. If you tell me "accessories to spice up your love demonstrations"? We answer "toys, of course". To say goodbye to the feeling of roasting in the oven when you start playing with your partner, it's the same, think accessories!
The fan is pretty nice for maintaining close contact.. we're not going to give up our favorite position just because it's hot, are we? No way!
Or the ice cube.. moved delicately over erogenous zones, it will certainly have its effect.. And along the spine, it's just great for an immediate fresh effect.
5 - Who said contact was mandatory?
Want to vibrate with your partner? Yeah, that's a good start! But don't forget that it doesn't necessarily involve “merging” with them. It's entirely possible to play from a distance. Let's go get your connected toy out of the closet, settle in a cool spot (under the air conditioning, in front of the fan, on the tiles... let your imagination drive you) and a little trip to the 7th heaven... here we go!
This summer, let's bet on fun, fantasies, sensations galore, without having to deprive ourselves.. We forget the °C for a few moments, and think as much as possible about what our clitoris or penis dictates to us! Do you want some caliente? No problem, with the tips we've just presented to you, all you have to do is play!
Céline
Hello, I'm Céline! I am a sexologist and writer for Passage du Désir. Holder of a DIU in Sexology, sexual medicine, and sex therapy, I share with you a multitude of tips to spice up your moments together or solo and guide you towards a fulfilling sexuality. 💜
