Top products for stimulating the deep spot

If I say “erogenous zone”, are you thinking “easy, I know all about those”? First, a round of applause for your sexpertise, but… there’s always a but… Are you sure?

Today’s topic is the deep spot… You have four hours! If you’re feeling unsure, don’t panic: I’ve prepared a little cheat sheet…

The deep spot: what’s that, then? 

The deep spot literally means the “deep point”. So we’re not talking about the great, the magnificent, the one and only G-spot… but another, relatively little-known erogenous zone!

Right, let me put on my best white coat and explain… The spot we want to stimulate lies about 12 cm inside the vaginal entrance. The vagina isn’t a perfectly straight path to pleasure… What were the architects of the human body thinking?

The end of the vagina curves slightly around the cervix, to which it’s attached. Imagine drawing a 3 and turning it on its side. The curves of the number form the hollows corresponding to the deep spot, while the little point in the middle would be the cervix.

Look, a picture is worth a thousand words (what, my analogies aren’t clear? 😱)

And there are actually two spots for the price of one…

We’re talking about:

• The “front spot”, on the front wall of the vagina, towards the belly

• And the “back spot”, which is on the posterior wall. It’s generally the one that gives the most intense pleasure!

Before you start wondering how many out-of-this-world orgasms you’ve missed because you didn’t know it existed, let me reassure you: this pleasure spot is tricky to find, let alone stimulate. Don’t doubt your skills between the sheets; it’s not something you can activate with a snap of your fingers.

Let’s go in search of this erogenous zone! 

That’s all very well, but how do I open the gates to this temple of pleasure? You can try a sex toy, but to stimulate the deep spot properly, your toy needs to meet a few criteria:

• Its insertable length needs to be more than 12 cm. Otherwise, it’s a bit like wanting to make yourself a coffee when you know the cup is right up there on the top shelf: if you can’t reach it, you won’t be enjoying that coffee any time soon…

• It needs to be fairly slim to slip between the cervix and the vaginal wall

• Its tip needs to be curved so it doesn’t bump into the cervix, which some people may find uncomfortable or even painful

So, let me rummage through my treasure chest of delights and suggest a few ways to seek out that mysterious deep spot:

✨ The Däo by Black Edition could be a great companion on this quest. Its curve is ideal, and the little bonus is that it’s made of shatterproof glass. You can pop it in the fridge or warm water to bring it to just the temperature you fancy!

✨ Gigi the explorer by Passage du désir ticks all the boxes too. As a bonus, its 9 vibration modes offer a rainbow of sensations. Another lovely little perk: it’s wonderfully versatile… we’ll let you discover that for yourself!

Other ways to reach the holy grail? 

Of course! All roads lead to the deep spot…

You can stimulate the deep spot with your partner’s penis by choosing positions that allow deep penetration. Try doggy style, reverse cowgirl, the anvil, Indra, cowgirl, the wheelbarrow or the lotus…

If you’re wondering what all those positions look like, I have just the game to make you a Kama Sutra expert… Mmm, I can think of a few people who might get some ideas!

Deep penetration isn’t always enjoyable for people with a clitoris, and that’s completely OK! When it comes to sex, you don’t have to like everything. If non-penetrative sex is more your thing, or deep penetration simply doesn’t appeal, there are plenty of other ways to find pleasure… Find what excites you and enjoy it to your heart’s content!