Pegging is a sexual practice we’ve been hearing a lot about in recent years. Why? Because it lets everyone discover – or rediscover – the pleasures of anal play: that’s one big plus! When pleasure’s on the cards, we’re always up for it. But THE reason pegging is in the spotlight is that it breaks the mould. It gives a cheeky two fingers to the clichés and taboos surrounding our beloved backsides. And we love that!
🍑 Pegging 🍑
No Wailing Wall or Berlin Wall here. No, the wall we’re taking on is the wall of prejudice!
With pegging, say goodbye to preconceived ideas about people with penises doing the penetrating and people with vulvas being penetrated. Sex isn’t about rules or conventions. It’s about two people (or more) enjoying themselves, no matter when, how or with whom!
With pegging, the person with a clitoris gets to be the one who penetrates their partner! It’s a different way to explore anal pleasure and, in our view, well worth trying. Of course, if it’s really not your thing, that’s absolutely fine. Consent is sexy*
*Consent is sexy
🍑 Choose THE right toy for the job 🍑
A person with a clitoris isn’t naturally equipped to penetrate! So they’ll need an intimate toy to make up for Mother Nature’s little “oversight”.
What should you choose to try pegging?
The perfect match: harness + dildo
A classic option that’s anything but dull, and wonderfully effective for anal pleasure that really sparkles ✨
Our dear member of Team Clitoris gets to slip into a harness and add the dildo of their choice!
I’d recommend the Magic Strap, which stays securely in place without compromising on comfort. Its adjustable straps let it move with you without chafing or slipping around your hips. Another big plus: it comes in sizes 34 to 48!
All that’s left is to complete your get-up with a toy that slips into the harness’s stretchy central ring! You could pair it with:
- the Velvet (purple), ideal for beginners looking for a toy with a slim diameter! This little gem is temperature-responsive, meaning it can be firm (after a rinse under cold water) or flexible (after a rinse under warm water).
- the Pinky (pink), also temperature-responsive and made from Silexpan for maximum softness!
- The G-spot and P-spot dildo (black), last but not least. A real little gem that’ll give you a helping dildo… hand, I mean a helping hand… in taking your partner to the heights of prostate pleasure! It comes in several sizes to suit beginners and more experienced users alike. And the icing on the cake? It’s also suitable for people with clitorises: it and the G-spot are a match made in heaven!
Strap-ons
The best option if you don’t want to bother with a harness (however comfortable it may be) or cover up that lovely backside. And let’s be honest: a strap-on gives BOTH partners the chance to enjoy heavenly sensations. Giving your partner pleasure? YES. Getting your share of the fun along the way? DOUBLE YES!
How does it work? The toy has two parts. On one side, an egg or oval that goes inside the vagina. On the other, a dildo that penetrates your partner. A two-in-one that couldn’t be easier to use!
But as you’ve probably guessed, this is a whole category of intimate toys. Shapes, designs and features vary from one model to another.
Come on, let me take you into the wonderful world of strap-ons and tell you more. Follow me!
A classic – but not quite
If you asked me which “weapon of choice” I’d use to start pegging, I’d say the A-strap moi. Why? Because of the pun in its name, obviously! Not a good enough reason? All right, let me explain!
The best thing about this little marvel? The shape of the part used by the person doing the penetrating. Let me explain. In most cases, this part looks like an egg: perfectly smooth and rounded. It feels lovely, BUT you can go one step further and get even more pleasure than an egg can offer.
As you can see in the product photo, it’s more of a quirky oval. What difference does that make? The slight curve at the tip is specially designed to tease the penetrating partner’s G-spot as they thrust.
It’s a bit like tomatoes: the less smooth and uniform they are, the better!
Besides adding pleasure, this shape makes it easier for your pelvic floor muscles to keep the toy in place!
Another big plus is that you can adjust the position of the toy’s central curve! It’s a brilliant feature that lets you choose the angle of penetration or shape the toy to suit the positions you want to try. Genius, I tell you!
The external and internal stimulation combo
When it comes to pleasure, who says you have to pick one side or the other? The Happy Rabbit is another unusual strap-on with more than one trick up its sleeve!
The egg is shaped to stimulate the G-spot too, but the devil’s in the detail, and it doesn’t stop there. It also has adorable rabbit ears, making it a hybrid of the toy world: part strap-on, part rabbit. Your clitoris will thank you!
The dildo part also has a motor to give the receiving partner even more intense sensations. On one side, pleasurable thrusts; on the other, heavenly vibrations. With 15 vibration modes, no less!
Did someone say vibrations?
The last little gem in our top picks might surprise you! Yes, it’s egg-shaped, and yes, the angle isn’t adjustable. So why am I telling you about it when I’ve just said there are better options?
Because it’s genuinely worth a look! The vibrating strap-on has so much going for it. For a start, it vibrates! Bliss…
And not just any vibrations. It stands out thanks to its three motors. The first sits in the dildo part to stimulate the person being penetrated. The second is in the insertable egg for a delicious G-spot massage. And the third, last but certainly not least, is at the base of the dildo, where it teases the clitoris throughout your session.
Or not, because you can actually activate each of the three motors independently with a remote control. Brilliant! If one partner isn’t into vibrations but the other is, you can meet in the middle and everyone’s happy. Hurrah for the vibrating strap-on!
As you can see, there are plenty of ways to enjoy pegging and no shortage of toys to choose from. So which of these gems has caught your eye? 💜



