Top most commonly spoken phrases in the bedroom or elsewhere

Ah.. dirty talk! You know, those little words we whisper in our partner's ear to guide them in their desires and turn up the heat. According to an Australian study, 92% of people talk during sex!

The figure might seem enormous and I can already see some of you thinking "there must be something wrong here.. Everyone does it, but it's just not my thing!".

NO! Nothing is wrong. Nobody would look at you sideways if you said you don't like Brussels sprouts.. So why would you be judged if dirty talk leaves you cold? You know what they say: each to their own.. And besides, what others think, what others do gold don't do — does it really matter? NO either 😜 The only thing that truly matters is to communicate with your partner to create sparks together, nothing more, nothing less!

Right then, let's go with the top most commonly spoken naughty phrases!

Talk dirty to me*: the all-time classics 

*Tell me dirty words

From the phrase that slips out and flatters the other's ego almost despite ourselves, to the ultra-hot comeback — everyone has their own signature style when it comes to dirty talk!

• The dominant version: "I'm going to give you the best cunnilingus/blowjob of your life!", "Give me your hands, I'm going to tie you up!" etc. Broadly speaking, you announce the mischief you're about to get up to… Yum, provided it's consensual!!!

• The possessive version: They are YOUR partner and you remind them of how important they are to you.. Even under the covers (gold elsewhere!). It can range from a romantic impulse like "My love!" and other terms of endearment to other things that are a little more intense, as long as there's the idea of "my…" gold "mine…"

• The fantasy version: It's the perfect moment to dare to bring it up! "I'd love to watch you with him/her!", "Take the remote control and activate my toy whenever you like!"

• The collaborative version: We know what we want and we let our partner know to reach climax! "Touch me at the same time!", "Go faster!", etc.

• The encouragement version: We love what they're doing to us, we want it to continue, and we make that known. It might sound something like "Keep going, you're going to make me come!", "More!", gold "That feels so good!"

• The full romance version: An "I love you!" let slip in the middle of sex can also have its effect, and spice up what follows… It promises to get intense — unless you met them barely 2 hours ago! Oops..

• Onomatopoeias: Ok, we're here to talk about the best phrases to heat things up.. On this one, no phrases as such, but let's be honest — moans gold even "Yesss!" whispered in the ear.. We love it!

Mistakes to avoid: 

First of all, throwing yourself into it because you've read / seen / heard that everyone loves it.. That's a bad idea! Already because doing what everyone else does isn't interesting in itself — everyone likes different things. Your partner might not enjoy it, and may not have given their consent for it either.

Unfortunately, there's no secret recipe for the perfect dirty talk — the ideal is to be honest! Don't forget who you are. The more what you say sounds like the person you are and represents you, the more exciting it will be. Be yourself!

Then some phrases are inevitably more exciting than others! Describing what you'd like to do to the other person / receive, gold talking about your fantasies, will often have more impact than a "can you feel it?" gold "I'm going to give it to you" thrown in just for the sake of it.

And you — are you more for or against dirty talk? What do you like to say / hear?