Top phrases most spoken under the sheets or elsewhere

Ah.. dirty talk! You know, those little words whispered in the ear of your partner to guide them in their desires and raise the temperature. According to an Australian study, 92% of people talk during the act!

The number might seem huge, and I can already see some of you thinking "there must be something wrong.. Everyone does it, but it's not my thing!".

NO! Nothing is wrong. No one would look at you sideways if you said you didn't like Brussels sprouts.. So why would you be judged if dirty talk leaves you cold? You know what they say: to each their own taste.. And then the opinion of others, what others do or don't do, does it really matter? Not either 😜 The only thing that really counts is to communicate with your partner to create sparks as a duo, no more, no less!

Come on, let's go for the top most said naughty phrases!

Talk dirty to me*: the great classics

*Tell me dirty words

From the phrase that slips out and flatters the other's ego almost despite ourselves, to the ultra-hot reply, everyone has their signature in terms of dirty talk!

• The dominant version: "I'm going to give you the best oral sex of your life!", "Give me your hands, I'm going to tie you up!" etc etc.. Basically, we announce the misdeeds we are about to commit.. Yum, as long as it's consensual!!!

• The possessive version: They are YOUR partner and you remind them of their importance.. Even under the sheets (or elsewhere!). It can range from romantic bursts like "My love!" and other sweet words to more intense things as long as there's the idea of "my.." or "mine.."

• The fantasy version: It's the perfect moment to dare to talk about it! "I'd like to see you with him/her!", "Take the remote and activate my toy whenever you want!"

• The perfect collaboration version: We know what we want and we let our partner know to reach the climax! "Touch me at the same time!", "Speed up!", etc etc

• The encouragement version: We love what they're doing to us, we want it to continue, and we let it be known. It can be something like "Keep going, you're going to make me come!", "More!", or "It's so good!"

• The full romanticism version: A "I love you!" dropped in the middle of your encounter can also have an effect, and spice up the rest of the game.. It promises to get intense unless you've just met them 2 hours ago! Oops..

• Onomatopoeias : Ok, we're here to talk about the best phrases to heat things up.. This time, no phrases, but let's be honest, moans or even "Yessss!" whispered in the ear.. We love it!

The missteps to avoid: 

First, jumping into it because we read / saw / heard that everyone loves it.. It's a bad idea! First of all, because doing what everyone else does is not interesting in itself, everyone likes different things. It might not please your partner, who might not have given you their consent for it.

Unfortunately, there is no secret recipe for the perfect dirty talk, the ideal is to be honest! Don't forget who you are. The more what you say resembles the person you are and represents you, the more exciting it will be. Be yourself!

Then, some phrases are necessarily more exciting than others! Describing what you'd like to do to the other / receive or talking about your fantasies will often have more impact than a "do you feel it" or "I'm gonna put it in" thrown out there for fun..

And you, are you for or against dirty talk? What do you like to say / hear?