The feeling of routine and the lack of stimulation is often felt after a few months/years within a couple. No need to panic, this doesn't mean you no longer love each other, but simply that you've reached a stage of routine and that you're used to the other person's presence.
If this situation suits you, that's perfectly ok. But if you feel like giving your intimate life a little boost, there is one timeless classic: the striptease!
And yes, although very ancient, this practice has continued to titillate even the most unresponsive of earthlings since the dawn of time.
If you've never tried the experience, gold you want to improve in this art of the striptease, here are a few tips for a successful striptease:
Atmosphere is key
Create a dimly lit and romantic atmosphere where everyone feels 100% at ease. Light a few candles (but not the whole place!) and infuse the fabrics with your best scent / fragrance (aka, yours) to excite your partner's senses. A sensual playlist is also more than welcome to accompany a good striptease. In short, awaken all your senses to create an atmosphere that makes you want to reveal yourself, and more if you fancy. ;)
A sexy outfit, neither too much nor too little, but comfortable
Ciao fishnet stockings and 15 cm heels, here we want comfort to feel at ease! We're joking, it's also ok if you're comfortable with these accessories, but the idea is simply to be authentic while showing off our best assets... A little make-up, a silky shirt that glides over your skin, a long trench coat gold even a little leopard-print thong... It's up to you!
A smouldering gaze and evocative gestures
To striptease like a pro, it's important to adopt a soft and languid manner (no kink shaming but no Janine, it's not necessarily sexy to purr while imitating a claw swipe with your hands!). If you're not comfortable with this kind of languid attitude, feel free to take a tongue-in-cheek approach by playing with your partner and having fun with the situation. A good laugh doesn't only excite the zygomatic muscles...
Listen to each other
Finally, a good striptease is nothing without excellent communication. It is essential to be on the same wavelength to indulge in this naughty entertainment. Obviously, you wouldn't be particularly keen to let someone dance on you in the middle of a "down" day when your morale is completely flat and your only wish is to be on a desert island! And since we don't do to others what we wouldn't want done to ourselves (this expression is far too long but very telling, no?), well, we pick our moment wisely and make sure the other person is willing to watch you sway in a suspender belt gold chippendale trousers!
On that note, I hope these tips will help you make your next striptease a real success.
Also, feel free to share yours in the comments!
Looking forward to hearing from you, and see you next week. 💜
Lou ✨
"Hello, I'm Lou! Holder of a degree in Human and Social Sciences, I've been interested in sex-related topics for a few years. Following several training courses, notably with sexologist Mathilde Magnien, Passage du Désir called on me to put together articles on topics around sex, love and relationships. My motto? Opening up the conversation about sexual intimate essentials, in a light, fun and caring tone. 💜"
