Tips for a successful striptease

The feeling of routine and lack of stimulation often occurs after a few months/years within a couple. Don't panic, this doesn't mean you don't love each other anymore, but simply that you have reached a stage of routine and that you are used to each other's presence.

If this situation suits you, that's perfectly okay. But if you want to give a little boost to your intimate life, there is a timeless classic: the striptease!

Yes, although very old, this practice continues to thrill even the most insensitive of earthlings since the dawn of time.

If you've never tried the experience, or if you want to improve in this art of striptease, here are some tips for a successful striptease:

The atmosphere is the key

Create a dim and romantic atmosphere, where everyone feels 100% comfortable. Light some candles (and not the house!) and soak the fabrics with your best perfume (aka, yours) to excite your partner's senses. A sensual playlist is also more than welcome to accompany a good striptease. In short, awaken all your senses to create an atmosphere that makes you want to reveal yourself, and more if affinities. ;)

A sexy outfit, but comfortable

Ciao fishnet stockings and 15 cm heels, here we want comfort to feel at ease! Just kidding, it's also okay if you're comfortable with these accessories, but the idea is just to be authentic while enhancing our charming assets... A little make-up, a silky shirt that glides over your skin, a long trench coat, or even a little leopard slip... It's up to you!

A smoldering look, and evocative gestures

To striptease like a pro, it's important to adopt a soft and languorous gesture (no kink shaming but no Janine, it's not necessarily sexy to purr while imitating a claw swipe with your hands!). If you're not comfortable with this kind of languorous attitude, feel free to practice second-degree humor by playing with your partner and having fun with the situation. A good laugh doesn't necessarily only excite the zygomatic muscles...

Be attentive to each other

Finally, a good striptease is nothing without excellent communication. It is essential to be on the same wavelength to indulge in this playful entertainment. Obviously, you wouldn't be too keen to let yourself dance in the middle of a "down" day when your mood is all flat and your only desire is to be on a deserted island! And since we don't do to others what we wouldn't like done to us (this expression is way too long but very telling, isn't it?), well, we choose the right moment and make sure the other person is willing to watch you wiggle in garter belts or chippendale pants!

With that, I hope these tips will help make your next striptease a real success.

By the way, feel free to share yours in the comments!

Looking forward to reading you, and see you next week. 💜