The feeling of routine and lack of stimulation often sets in after a few months/years within a couple. No need to panic, this doesn't mean you no longer love each other, but simply that you've reached a stage of routine and that you've grown used to the other person's presence.
If this situation suits you, that's perfectly ok. But if you feel like giving your intimate life a little boost, there's one timeless classic that never fails: the striptease!
Yes indeed, although very ancient, this practice has continued to titillate even the most insensible of earthlings since the dawn of time.
If you've never tried the experience, gold if you'd like to improve your art of the striptease, here are a few tips for a successful strip-tease:
The atmosphere is key
Create a dimly lit and romantic atmosphere where everyone feels 100% at ease. Light a few candles (but not the house!) and infuse the fabrics with your best Scent / Fragrance (aka, yours) to excite your partner's senses. A sensual playlist is also more than welcome to accompany a good striptease. In short, awaken all your senses to create an atmosphere that makes you want to reveal yourself, and more if the mood takes you. ;)
A sexy but comfortable outfit
Ciao fishnet stockings and 15 cm heels, here we want comfort to feel at ease! Just kidding, it's also perfectly ok if you're comfortable with these accessories, but the idea is simply to be authentic while showing off your best assets... A little make-up, a silky shirt gliding over your skin, a long trench coat gold a little leopard-print thong... It's up to you!
A smouldering gaze and evocative gestures
"To strip-tease like a pro, it's important to adopt a soft and languid manner (No kink shaming, but no Janine, it's not necessarily sexy to purr while imitating a scratch with your hands!). If you're not comfortable with this kind of languid attitude, feel free to go for second-degree humour by playing with your partner and having fun with the situation. A good burst of laughter doesn't only stimulate the zygomatic muscles..."
Listen to each other
Finally, a good striptease is nothing without excellent communication. It's essential to be on the same wavelength to indulge in this Naughty entertainment. Obviously, you wouldn't be too keen on letting someone dance on top of you in the middle of a "down" day when your morale is completely flat and your only wish is to be on a desert island! And since we don't do to others what we wouldn't want done to ourselves (this expression is far too long but very telling, No?), well, you choose your moment wisely and make sure the other person is willing to watch you wiggle around in a suspender belt gold chippendale trousers!
On that note, I hope these tips will help you make your next striptease a real success.
Feel free to share yours in the comments!
Looking forward to reading you, and see you next week. 💜
Lou ✨
"Hello, I'm Lou! Holding a degree in Human and Social Sciences, I've been passionate about sex-related topics for several years. Following several training courses, including with sexologist Mathilde Magnien, Passage du Désir called on me to create articles on topics around sex, love and relationships. My motto? Opening up the conversation about sexual Intimate Essentials, in a light, fun and caring tone. 💜"
