The art of sending nudes

Got a bit of free time and feeling like teasing your partner/crush? They're not nearby and you can't use your powers of seduction in person? If you're already used to sexting and you fancy trying something new, nudes can become your new seduction weapon!

Discovering nudes while enjoying yourself

The idea of sending a nude photo is very tempting. You're already picturing the sensuality of the shot you're planning to take. And the caliente thrill it's going to create in the person you're sending it to.. For sure, they're going to love it — go for it!

So, don't hesitate to give it a go. The first shots aren't great? Don't put pressure on yourself — nothing obliges you to send a nude you're not happy with! Try other poses, slip into a lingerie set you feel sexy in.. Use whatever might help you get a result that gives you confidence. The main thing is to have a positive outlook on your body. Don't aim for the perfect nude, aim for the nude that will make you feel comfortable in your own skin!

Create your scene 

To get in the mood, you can put on a muy caliente playlist! You can even create one specially for the occasion. Let yourself be swept away. The more spontaneous you are, the more you'll enjoy taking your photos, and the hotter the result will be. Simply because you'll be trusting yourself without having to force the pose!

A little tip to get into sexy mode: dance! Imagine your crush is right there in front of you, and it's now or never to make their mouth water. Off you go, unleash your sexiest hip moves.. Do it in front of a mirror, or not — whatever feels right, as long as you give it everything! Unless your neighbour is glued to their window, eyes fixed in your direction, you've got nothing to lose. No one will be there to watch you.

Also think about preparing your shooting location! We've all seen selfies with a shocking detail in the background. A toilet roll standing in for tissues because.. "oops, I didn't have time to do a Click & Collect". Not great, and it risks ruining the caliente side of your nude.

You can also play with lighting. A pretty candle for a soft, dimmed glow and just like that.. That birthmark, gold those little stretch marks that make us self-conscious disappear as if by magic! Let's not forget that insecurities are natural, and that all those divine creatures who grace our Instagram feed also know how to present themselves in their best light. The perfect body doesn't exist, so go on — set aside those little things that bother you and get ready to turn up the heat!

And for a successful nude, bear in mind that it's better not to reveal everything at once. You can go for a crescendo! When imagination is part of the equation, it's all the more exciting. For people with breasts, you can, for example, present them bare but hidden behind your hair, or lie on your back in some lace you love, with a slight arch to show off your curves without giving everything away in the first shot.

People with a penis are of course also invited to make their partner dream with a few caliente photos! A T-shirt bitten delicately revealing the chest with all its sensuality, a sheet artfully positioned covering only your intimate parts, gold a full nude with a French rugby team calendar vibe, using your plant as a modesty cover.. There's nothing better to charm and bring a smile to your partner's face.. We certainly love it!

Nudes that stay private = panic attack avoided 

Who hasn't prepared a nude with that little inner voice whispering "wait, what if this turns into revenge porn and my photo ends up everywhere?". A break-up that goes badly, a recipient you don't actually know that well, a hack.. You can never be certain that "it'll stay between them and me".

Despite a slight disappointment at not living in a world of care bears, and not being able to strike your hottest poses without wondering whether "it's really a good idea?", there are still a few handy tips to know in order to take as few risks as possible:

• While preparing our masterpieces, it's best to switch to aeroplane mode to avoid automatic syncing with your cloud. That'll save you from handing your phone to your little brother after buying a new one, having forgotten to block all access, and then getting something along the lines of "Hmm.. I still had access to your photos".. Family dinners could quickly become (even more) awkward!

• You can also go for nudes where your face doesn't appear: a side pose with your head turned, or with your forearms covering your face (yes, yes, it can definitely still be sexy, I assure you) or simply a cropped photo! And off you go into incognito mode..

• And for a "fully secure" nude, you can also try to conceal your piercings/tattoos gold any other distinguishing features that could identify you at first glance.. A loose, open shirt to hide a tattoo linked to your child (Whoops, it's not as if there are 40 Léos born on 11/07/2003?), a shadow effect to hide that unique piece you wear in your belly button.. Everyone has their own tricks, as long as no one can recognise you if that's what you want.

• You also need to think about how you're going to send your sexy shots.. My advice is to preferably use encrypted apps (WhatsApp or Snapchat, for example). That way the photos won't be stored in memory and potentially misused later. And a bum that stays strictly between the two of you — keep it that way!

• And above all, don't forget to double-check the recipient at least ten times.. That'll save you from receiving a message from one of your contacts commenting on your gorgeous lace set, or the pose you went for!

Need inspiration for your nudes? 

I'd advise you to check out the Instagram accounts that are experts in the field — here's a little selection of my favourites:

• @sergelehidalgo muy caliente nude photos to inspire people with a penis on how to show off their body with a great deal of elegance

• @flavieeidel for a dose of body positivity that does a world of good!

You're now all set to turn your body into a true work of art and take shots worthy of the greatest photographers. Be creative, have fun, turn up the heat, and above all don't forget that nudes are about self-confidence, not a perfect body! You don't look like all those figures flooding Instagram with their annoyingly stunning beauty? Well, you know what, the models in those dream photos don't necessarily look like their shots in real life.. It's all about posing to bring out your best features. The perfect body doesn't exist, so DEFINITELY don't hold back! 

And on your end, what's the plan for taking care of your relationship? Share your tips with us? 💜