Masturbate differently thanks to shallowing

Welcome to the wonderful world of masturbation with this new article! Alone, in pairs, with sex toys, your pillow, your hands, or your partner's body... There are really a million ways to give yourself pleasure. Today, I am introducing you to a new way to enjoy yourself that is all the rage for people with vulvas. You will quickly understand why! No need to keep you in suspense, I'm taking you directly with me to talk about shallowing.

What is shallowing?

Straight from the language of Shakespeare, "shallow" means the surface. The principle when masturbating in the shallowing way is therefore to seek shallow vaginal stimulation... Please, feel free to say "thank you Captain Obvious" BUT I must be super clear with you. It's impossible for me not to state the obvious. I would have regretted depriving you of an absolute thrill due to lack of clarity!

But the question that's surely burning on your lips is "why is it so popular? What's so crazy about it?". In reality, what makes this practice successful is the area it stimulates. We generally like this shallow stimulation because it acts on the G zone, aka one of the erogenous zones capable of generating hyper intense pleasure.

Some tips to optimize pleasure?

If you want to try using your favorite penetrating toy, don't hesitate to tilt it in different ways. A little higher, a little more to the left... With a large number of sensory receptors, this area is particularly reactive to stimulation. But if you repeat the same back-and-forth or the same "rocking" movement endlessly, it eventually loses its charm and you take less pleasure. So go try a bunch of different combinations, variation is the key to lasting enjoyment!

And the big plus of all this is that it helps you know yourself better. Does a particular angle make you shiver? Perfect, you can then seek positions that allow you to reproduce it during your encounters 😍

You can also play with the movements of your pelvis. Imagine, you are lying on your back, what penetrates you (toy, your partner's sex) is in place. You can, for example, slightly lift your buttocks and make small circles with your hips like a hula hoop. As for the pace, it's up to you to decide if you're more of a slow sex vibe or the type to go wild and vibrate!

What do we use for shallowing?

With its thousands of tiny nerve endings, the vagina is a very sensitive area. I am aware that sensitivity is not always seen in a good light, but here it is a real jackpot! Sensitive means easier to react and more possible options to get there.

Solo, you can, for example, use your fingers. No need to have pianist's hands to discover shallowing, since the G-zone is only about 4 centimeters from the entrance of your vagina. Two fingers and a bit of lubricant can do the trick. Place the palm of your hand against your Mons Venus and insert your fingers until you feel a small rough area. That's your G-zone! All that's left is to hook your fingers in a “come here” motion to tap the area and enjoy.

You can also use a sextoy. If you like vibrations, I recommend our Rolls Royce of rabbits, namely the OKI. This little marvel is equipped with a motor in the tip of the insertable part specially designed to tap the G-spot.

For a non-vibrating toy, the DAO with its curved shape will be perfect for the exercise. Strength of this model: it is made of unbreakable glass! You can therefore immerse it in hot or cold water to play with temperature and spice up your masturbation sessions. 

You can also try shallowing in a duo masturbation game. Your partner can use their fingers or a toy in exactly the same way I explained above. If you are more inclined towards body-to-body, a penis or a strap-on will be necessary for the equation.

To fully exploit the sensations, I advise you to opt for the magpie position! A little wonder where the penetrating partner sits. The other member of the duo sits astride on top, facing them. Supported on the feet or knees, you will then manage the movement. Imagine you are doing mini squats, to maintain a penetration that remains sufficiently shallow to reach the G-spot.

For a less sporty version, you can also go for a reversed scoop! The pair lies face to face. Legs tightened or spread for the penetrated person, both work perfectly. And what is super exciting about this is that you can look at each other and witness the other's pleasure!

Before bringing you to the end of this article, let me put on my "madam good tips" hat... For those who are looking to squirt, shallowing is great training! With the stimulation of the G-spot, a good dose of excitement, and being relaxed, you are on the right track to perhaps discovering these new sensations. You can also stimulate your clitoris, if you are fond of it, for a combo that will put all the chances on your side. And if it doesn't happen this time, no panic, you have many more naughty naps ahead to try again 😜

That's all for today, and on behalf of the entire team of Passage du Désir, I wish you an excellent holiday season! 💜