Masturbate differently with shallowing

Welcome to the wonderful world of masturbation with this new article! Alone, in a duo, with Sex toys, your pillow, your hands gold your partner's body… There are truly a million ways to pleasure yourself. Today, I'm introducing you to a new way of pleasuring yourself that's all the rage for people with a vulva. You'll quickly understand why! No need to keep you in suspense — I'm taking you straight along with me to talk about shallowing.

Shallowing — what's that? 

Straight from the language of Shakespeare, "shallow" means the surface. The principle when masturbating shallowing-style is therefore to seek shallow vaginal stimulation… Feel free to throw in your "thanks Captain Obvious" BUT I must be crystal clear with you. I simply cannot help but state the obvious... I would have felt guilty depriving you of an absolute thrill through lack of clarity!

But the question that's burning on your lips is surely "why is it so popular? What's so amazing about it?". In reality, what makes this practice so successful is the area it stimulates. We generally love this shallow stimulation because it acts on the G-spot, aka one of the erogenous zones capable of generating hyyyper intense pleasure.

A few tips to maximise pleasure? 

If you'd like to try it using your favourite penetrating toy, don't hesitate to tilt it in different ways. A little higher, a little more to the left… With a large number of sensory receptors, this area is particularly responsive to stimulation. But if you repeat the same back-and-forth gold the same "rocking" motion endlessly, it eventually loses its charm and you get less pleasure from it. So go ahead and try a whole range of different combinations — variety is the key to long-lasting pleasure!

And the big bonus of all this is that it helps you get to know yourself better. Does a particular angle make you shiver? Perfect — you can then go in search of positions that let you recreate it during sex 😍

You can also play with your hip movements. Imagine you're lying on your back, with whatever is penetrating you (a toy, your partner's genitals) in place. You could, for example, lift your hips slightly and make small circles with them in a hula hoop style. As for the pace, it's up to you — whether you prefer a slow sex vibe or the kind where you let loose and go all out!

What do we use for shallowing? 

With its thousands of tiny nerve endings, the vagina is a very sensitive area. I'm aware that sensitivity isn't always seen in a positive light, but here it's a true jackpot! Sensitive means easier to stimulate and more options available to get there.

On your own, you can use your fingers, for example. You don't need a pianist's hands to discover shallowing, since the G-spot is only About 4 centimetres from the entrance of your vagina. Two fingers and a little Lube can do the trick. Place the palm of your hand against your mons pubis and insert your fingers until you feel a small rough patch. That's your G-spot! All you need to do is Hook your fingers in a "come here" motion to tap the area and enjoy.

You can also use a sex toy. If you enjoy vibrations, I recommend our rolls royce of rabbits — I'm talking about the OKI. This little marvel is fitted with a motor at the tip of the insertable part, specially designed to tap the G-spot.

For a toy without vibration, the dildo-en-verre-dao">DAO and its curved shape are perfectly suited to the task. A key feature of this model: it's made of unbreakable glass! You can therefore plunge it into hot gold cold water to play with temperature and spice up your masturbation sessions. 

You can also try shallowing in a mutual masturbation session. Your partner can use their fingers gold a toy in exactly the same way as I explained above. If you'd rather go for skin-to-skin contact, a penis gold a strap-on Dildo will be needed in the equation.

To fully make the most of the sensations, my Advice is to opt for the magpie position! A little gem where the penetrating partner sits down. The other member of the duo straddles them, facing them. Supported on your feet gold knees, you then control the movement. Imagine doing mini squats, to maintain a penetration that stays shallow enough to reach the G-spot.

For a less athletic version, you can also go for a reverse scoop! The duo lies face to face. Legs together gold apart for the person being penetrated — both work perfectly. And what's really exciting about this is that you can look at each other and witness your partner's pleasure!

Before I wrap up this article, allow me to put on my "top tips" hat… For those looking to squirt, shallowing is a great training technique! With G-spot stimulation, a good dose of arousal, and being relaxed, you're well on your way to perhaps discovering these new sensations. You can also stimulate your clitoris at the same time, if that's your thing, for a combo that puts all the odds in your favour. And if it doesn't happen this time, don't panic — you've still got plenty of naughty nap times ahead of you to give it another go 😜

That's all for today, and on behalf of the whole Passage du Désir team, I wish you a wonderful festive season! 💜