You are in bed with the object (or person) of all your desires, and suddenly, an erection problem occurs... What to do? Where can it come from? How to prevent it from happening? Prepare your pipou, we'll tell you everything. Psst! If you don't have a pipou, this article might also interest you.
No panic, we'll explain 🤓
The difficulty in getting or maintaining an erection is linked to a blood circulation problem. It is also referred to as erectile dysfunction or impotence (ah, the joys of etymology). If it's occasional no stress, it happens to everyone (more than 60% of people with a penis have already had trouble getting or maintaining an erection in their life according to an IFOP survey). However, if it happens systematically and the situation lasts more than 3 months, we can talk about erectile disorders.
Why me? Oh despair? 😭
Erection problems can have physical causes (diabetes, cholesterol, hypertension, cardiovascular or hormonal disorders, prostate or bladder surgery, etc.). Age is also a factor to consider, as erectile disorders are more frequent from the age of 50. The causes can also be psychological (stress, pressure, anxiety, depression, poor self-image, etc.).
What do I do? 🧐
To put all the chances on your side, try to improve your lifestyle. Avoid alcohol and tobacco consumption, ban drug use (of course), adopt a healthy and balanced diet. Consult a health professional for a psychological or physical diagnosis depending on the source of the problem. They will provide you with solutions and may prescribe medication such as Viagra or Levitra (another well-chosen name).
If you are not directly affected by these disorders, you can support the other person psychologically, by downplaying the situation, or even by turning it into a joke.
Disclaimer 👆
First news (no), the p*nis and erection are not the center of the world! That's why it's important not to base your sexuality around penetration or even erection, because you can definitely enjoy sex without penetration. It just takes a bit of imagination (no need to look very far...). 💜
Lou ✨
Hello, I'm Lou! Holder of a degree in Humanities and Social Sciences, I have been interested in sexology topics for a few years. Following several trainings, notably with sexologist Mathilde Magnien, Passage du Désir reached out to me to craft articles for you on topics of sexology, love, or relationships. My motto? To open up the conversation about sexual well-being, in a light, fun, and caring tone. 💜
