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Nearly 2,000 people with vulvas spoke frankly about their intimate lives. Everyone has their own rhythm… and that rhythm has changed.
of respondents identified as women have sex at least once a week
In %. Base: all people with vulvas surveyed. “Don’t know” responses are not shown.
in a relationship are not currently having sex, or have stopped having it
in a relationship have sex less often than at the start of their relationship
are satisfied with their romantic lives
think more everyday tenderness would spark their desire
Desire has its seasons. It often settles down over the years, without getting in the way of a happy life together.
26 out of 100 don’t have sex, or no longer do.
A phase every couple experiences in their own way, which can come to an end when desire returns.
Each dot represents 1 in 100 people with vulvas who are in a relationship. Base: people with vulvas in a relationship (1,240).
Millennial women are the most sexually active. After 60, intimate lives tend to become quieter, often because people live alone.
Base: all respondents identified as women, whether in a relationship or not. “Active sex life”: regular or occasional sex with a partner, whether in a relationship or not.
We asked people with vulvas who are in a relationship without sex to explain why, in their own words.
More libido
The desire is gone
Not enough time
Spontaneous responses; multiple answers possible. Base: 321 respondents identified as women who are in a relationship without sex.
Their answers are quite gentle: tenderness, rest and conversation.
“Yes, a lot” + “Yes, a little”. Base: people with vulvas in a relationship (1,240).
Enjoying pleasure on your own is no sign that a relationship has failed. It’s a way to get to know your body and stay connected to your desire.
of respondents identified as women who are in a relationship preferred masturbating to having sex with their partner this year
10% often, 29% less frequentlyamong people with vulvas in a relationship who no longer have sex: pleasure is still there
of respondents identified as women who are in a relationship have shared intimacy without penetration: caresses, mutual masturbation, oral sex…
Proportion who preferred solo pleasure to sex with their partner
Over the past 12 months. Base: people with vulvas who have been in a relationship for at least a year (1,190).
of respondents identified as women are satisfied with their romantic lives
of people with vulvas in a relationship are
of those in relationships without sex are too
Sex matters to 68% of respondents identified as women when it comes to being happy in love, compared with 83% of men. A gap worth talking about together.
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Ifop study for Passage du désir, conducted through an online self-administered questionnaire from 19 to 24 August 2026 with a sample of 1,947 women representative of the female population of France aged 18 and over, including 1,240 women in a relationship.
2005 data: Sofres study for Figaro Magazine, conducted face-to-face on 21 and 22 September 2005 with a national sample of 526 women drawn from a nationally representative sample of 1,000 people aged 18 and over.
Men’s data: 989 men aged 18 and over, surveyed online from 28 to 31 August 2026.
