Top sex toys to use together (or with more)

Looking to spice things up with your partner by adding couples’ sex toys to the mix? Well, good news: every single sex toy can be used by two people!

Of course, you can use absolutely any sex toy you fancy when playing together, but here’s my personal pick of the most fun toys to use with a partner. For a change of pace, plenty of laughs and some new sensations.

Let’s go!

What kinds of sex toys can couples use?

1 - Connected sex toys

For me, connected sex toys are number one. They’re perfect for long-distance couples or tech lovers. The brilliant thing is that this technology works with all kinds of sex toys! Wands, vibrating pebbles, rabbits, plugs, prostate stimulators – you name it. These little toys can be controlled remotely through an app. Whether you’re in Australia and your partner is in Poitou-Charentes, or you’re in the bathroom and they’re in the kitchen, your partner can control the intensity of the vibrations, thrusts or pulses of the toy you’re using. It’s a way to share an intimate moment from a distance. Add a video call and you can have an intense, intimate experience even when you’re miles apart! 

2 - Panty vibrators

If you’re feeling playful, this one’s for you: panty vibrators! They’re small magnetic sex toys that slip into your underwear. All that’s left is to invite your partner out for dinner and hand them the remote. They get to set the intensity of the vibrations that tickle your clitoris.

3 - Couples’ stimulators

The couples’ sex toy par excellence. It’s used during penis-in-vagina penetration and, once you get the hang of it, gives both partners pleasure!

Insert the slim part into the vagina, resting the flat end against the clitoris. During penetration, the vibrations will stimulate the inside of the vagina, the clitoris, the penis and its head. What more could you ask for? 

4 - Cock rings

Helps maintain an erection while delaying ejaculation. Great for penetrative sex. I’m especially fond of vibrating cock rings, which can stimulate both partners at once. Well, everyone deserves a bit of fun! 

5 - Vibrating pebbles

Much like couples’ stimulators, a vibrating pebble can be used during sex with a partner, whatever your genders. Its small size lets it slip between your bodies, where both partners can feel its powerful vibrations. Another plus? Leave it on your bedside table or living-room sideboard and no one will be any the wiser.

6 - Strap-on dildos

For heterosexual couples, this little accessory lets you swap roles during penetration, which can be surprising but very enjoyable for everyone! For lesbian couples, harnesses are a firm favourite, allowing deep penetration with plenty of rhythm. Some models come without a harness and penetrate both partners for maximum pleasure.

7- Butt plugs

And I couldn’t finish this list without mentioning dear old butt plugs, so here they are! Why use them with a partner? Because paired with oral sex, they’re an absolute treat. And I have to admit, having a little diamond sparkling between your cheeks is pretty stylish.

Ultimately, you could say every sex toy is suitable for couples! From mini bullets and suction-cup dildos to prostate stimulators, these little playthings work just as well solo, as a duo, as a trio – and beyond!

See you soon! 💜