Why use a toy? Today I'm giving you a little top 6 of good reasons to use an intimate toy, in case you're still on the fence. Right then, let's go for a little top 6!
1 - To take back control of your sexuality
This point mainly applies to people with a vulva. And yes, sex toys also help to demystify penetration and explore the joys of external clitoral stimulation. Many women who complained of never having had an orgasm were able, thanks to sex toys, to reach that holy grail, and even, for some, to experience the pleasure of multiple orgasms!
2 - They help discover new sensations
Well yes, unless your fingers or your partner's are vibrating or use suction, there's little chance of experiencing those sensations without the help of a sex toy (except for the daring ones who have already tried things with their electric toothbrush or washing machine).
3 - An intimate toy increases intimacy in a couple
Incorporating sex toys into your relationship can add a little novelty and spice! If you feel like you're going round in circles sexually, sex toys can be a great way to change up your routine. What better way to discover new horizons together?
4 - To try new practices alone before doing them with a partner
Do you want to try anal sex but aren't comfortable enough with your partner? Why not try it alone with a plug or a prostate stimulator to get a sense of how you feel? Do you want to try double penetration but don't dare take the plunge with two partners? Here too, sex toys can allow you to experiment quietly, on your own, before potentially sharing that experience with your partner(s).
5 - Intimate toy = Best tip to boost your libido
This point applies to sex toys and to masturbation in general. Spending time alone with yourself for your own pleasure can have a considerable impact on your libido and sexual desire.
6 - Simply to treat yourself!
It may seem obvious, but I felt it was important enough to mention. Because we can never say it enough: sexuality is above all about PLEA-SURE!
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Sophie
Hi, I'm Sophie! I've been writing articles about sexuality and relationships for 4 years, and I'm also a consultant for YesForLov. I hope this knowledge will allow me to answer the questions you have about sexuality!
