Prostatic pleasure

Even today, it can be a difficult subject to bring up, and people can quickly become defensive. But don’t run away: prostate pleasure could bring you orgasms that far surpass anything you’ve experienced so far...

What is the prostate?

Also known as the P-spot, the prostate is a gland in the male reproductive system. About the size of a walnut, it sits beneath the bladder, in front of the rectum.

One of its roles is to produce seminal fluid (a component of semen) and prostatic fluid, which protects sperm as they travel through the vagina. As arousal builds, the prostate swells — and that’s when things get interesting...

Like the head of the penis, the prostate has 4,000 nerve endings. It’s therefore an equally important area that, when stimulated well, can bring deep, intense orgasms and delay ejaculation.

Hands off my bum!

Why is it still such a taboo? Because reaching the prostate means exploring anal play, which can sometimes feel daunting. But sexual practices shouldn’t be confused with sexual orientation! We promise it’s a pleasure anyone can enjoy, so why miss out?

Slow and steady wins the race

It’s important to take your time and explore the area gently. For example, you could start with indirect prostate stimulation by massaging the perineum:

When erect, follow the line beneath the penis towards the anus and apply gentle pressure. You’ll find a spot that feels really good.

For direct stimulation, touch it very gently, focusing on massage and light pressure around the area, either alone or with a partner. Then insert your fingers.

As with stimulating the G-spot, you’ll need to curl your fingers to reach it, make circles and tap gently. The prostate needs waking up, and the brain doesn’t always recognise it as an erogenous zone straight away. Be patient! Don’t give up too quickly if you don’t feel anything the first few times. Try prostate stimulation without stimulating anywhere else, so your brain learns to associate pleasure with this area.

We also strongly recommend investing in an anal lube, which helps relax the area and, of course, lubricate it, since it doesn’t lubricate itself naturally.

To explore further

Why not explore prostate sex toys? (Bear in mind that not all anal sex toys are designed for the prostate.) Combined with penile stimulation, they can make your orgasms even more wonderful! With or without vibrations, alone or with a partner, sex toys can help you explore new and intense sensations. 

So, have we convinced you?

See you soon 💜