Multiple orgasms

We vaguely hear about it, the name makes us gently dream, but what exactly are multiple orgasms?

Well, to be honest, you don't need to be a great scholar to guess, multiple orgasms are simply the fact of climaxing multiple times during the same sexual encounter. But then, myth or reality?

Multiple orgasms, really?

Well yes, they exist. But it's not that simple! Because while some people achieve them naturally, it's not the case for everyone, and even less so for penis owners who experience "refractory" phases, that is, the necessary rest time for the penis before it can become erect again. Good news: the clitoris doesn't need to rest! However, it does experience a phase of post-orgasm hypersensitivity. After being excited in all directions, the 8000 sensory receptors of its external part sometimes need a little time before they can regain normal sensitivity and feel pleasure again.

But be careful, I see where you're going! Alone or with others, the multi-orgasm should not become the number one goal of an encounter. We can't repeat it enough, the only goal to keep in mind is PLEA-SURE! But since I'm nice, I'll give you my little personal tips to help you in this quest for multiple orgasms. Let's go!

How to have multiple orgasms?

1 - Get in the mood

This first little tip applies to all encounters, but particularly when you want to taste the delight of multiple orgasms. You're going to need to truly let go and indulge in pleasure. And letting go isn't always easy. So to help, get in the mood! A little sexy outfit, dim lighting, music... indulge yourself and listen to your desires. Whether you are alone or with others, start by looking at each other, caressing, kissing. Take the time to gradually build up desire and temperature, the pleasure will only be better!

2 - Use different techniques

No need for penetration to reach orgasm! Invite your partner to play with their fingers, tongue (both?) to stimulate you, insisting a little more than usual. Don't hold back your pleasure, let go. Don't try to anticipate or control. If you reach orgasm at the beginning of the encounter, you could easily have a second one a little later. My little personal tip: start slowly with external clitoral stimulation, then add internal stimulation with fingers, a penis or a sextoy..

3 - Take your time

After a first orgasm, don't panic trying to get a second one as quickly as possible. Your erogenous zones are tired, give your body a little time to rest. No one is in a hurry, right? Favor indirect caresses to bring down the body's tension. For areas irritated by friction, don't hesitate to use suitable massage oils and moisturizing lubricants.

4 - You will use your creativity.

Vary the pleasures! Change positions, use your fingers, your tongue, why not even a sextoy? This will allow you to stimulate different erogenous zones and thus explore the full orgasmic potential of these areas. Your body offers you a multitude of gateways to pleasure: clitoris, G-spot, Deep Spot, nipples, anal etc... The possibilities are endless, and it would be a shame to miss out!

In any case, it's really important not to put pressure on yourself. To experience these waves of pleasure, the best thing is always to listen to your body and be patient!

See you soon 💜