Multiple orgasms

We’ve vaguely heard about them, and the name sounds rather dreamy, but what exactly are multiple orgasms?

Well, you don’t need to be a genius to guess: multiple orgasms simply mean climaxing several times during the same sexual encounter. But are they myth or reality?

Multiple orgasms, really?

Well, yes, they do exist. But it’s not quite that simple! While some people experience them naturally, not everyone does — especially people with penises, who experience a ‘refractory period’: the time the penis needs to rest before it can become erect again. The good news is that the clitoris doesn’t need to rest! It can, however, become hypersensitive after orgasm. After all that excitement, the 8,000 sensory receptors in its external part sometimes need a little time to return to their usual sensitivity and feel pleasure again.

But hang on, I know what you’re thinking! Whether you’re alone or with others, multiple orgasms shouldn’t become the number-one goal of sex. We can’t say it often enough: the only goal to keep in mind is PLEA-SURE! But because I’m nice, I’ll share my personal tips to help you on your quest for multiple orgasms. Let’s go!

How can you have multiple orgasms?

1 - Get in the mood

This first little tip applies to all sexual encounters, but especially when you want to experience the delights of multiple orgasms. You’ll need to really let go and give yourself over to pleasure. And letting go isn’t always easy. So set the mood! A little sexy outfit, soft lighting, music… do what feels good and follow your desires. Whether you’re alone or with others, start by looking at each other, touching and kissing. Take your time and let desire and the temperature build gradually — the pleasure will be all the better for it!

2 - Try different techniques

You don’t need penetration to reach orgasm! Invite your partner to stimulate you with their fingers, their tongue (or both?), spending a little longer on it than usual. Don’t hold back your pleasure; let go. Don’t try to anticipate or control what happens. If you orgasm early on, you might easily have a second orgasm a little later. My personal tip: start gently with external clitoral stimulation, then add internal stimulation with fingers, a penis or a sex toy.

3 - Take your time

After your first orgasm, don’t panic and try to have a second one as quickly as possible. Your erogenous zones are tired, so give your body a little time to recover. No one’s in a rush, are they? Opt for indirect caresses to let your body’s arousal subside. For areas irritated by friction, try suitable massage oils and moisturising lubes.

4 - Get creative.

Mix things up! Change positions, use your fingers, your tongue, or why not even a sex toy? This lets you stimulate different erogenous zones and explore their full orgasmic potential. Your body offers all sorts of pathways to pleasure: the clitoris, g-spot, deep spot, nipples, anus and more… The possibilities are endless, and it would be a shame to miss out!

Whatever happens, it’s really important not to put pressure on yourself. To experience these waves of pleasure, the best thing is to listen to your body and be patient!

See you soon 💜