Comment se masturber en toute discrétion quand on est pas seul·e à la maison !

How to masturbate discreetly when you're not alone at home!

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Ah, masturbation... A wonderful source of pleasure, which, beyond the enjoyment and self-knowledge it brings, genuinely does your body good on so many levels. A whole host of benefits then? Yes, but that's not all! Things are evolving, it's true, and masturbation is starting to find its place in the wider conversation. We talk about it more easily, sure, but the taboo remains… Just like the natural urge to indulge in it! Ok, but when you're away for the weekend with friends gold visiting family… Hello paper-thin walls and awkward looks at breakfast the next morning! To avoid that, I've got a few tips to share to help you keep masturbating even in the least convenient moments.


Choosing the right time to masturbate 


Yay, Auntie Corinne is dropping by to visit! Honestly, good news — we have a great laugh with her. But as much as we love our star auntie from the bottom of our hearts, we also love not neglecting our naughty desires!


So in theory it's great, but in practice it can be tricky to find a moment to play with yourself. You don't necessarily want anyone to hear your very suggestive breathing gold the gentle noise of your sex toy in the next room… Luckily for us, at some point everyone goes to sleep. So you have a few windows to enjoy yourself.


And the big bonus is that by changing your masturbation habits, you can discover a new form of pleasure. If you're the type to hit the decibels during your solo sessions, activating mute mode can be really interesting. Why? Because you'll likely instinctively tend to hold your breath, which intensifies the pleasure felt by some! Gold at least, it will help you to be entirely focused on your sensations, and to heighten arousal.


Going back to basics and embracing the "natural method" 


If you jumped at the first tip, don't panic! Nobody has a libido that runs like clockwork, and honestly, let's not kid ourselves… There's nothing particularly exciting about scheduling a masturbation session.


So if you don't fancy waiting for everyone's attention to be directed elsewhere, you can very well go back to the good old methods. Put an end to the family debate gold push the board game aside, and off you go for a little "nap".


The perfect opportunity to put the expression "I'm all fingers and thumbs" to the test. Promise, in this case they'll work wonders! So, let's set our vibrator">favourite vibrator aside for a while and rediscover the pleasure of using our hands. Devastatingly effective, absolutely quiet, and on top of that it's perfect for varying pleasures… Over to you!


The bathroom 


Don't wait for me, I'm off to the shower… and just like that, none the wiser! The perfect solution for choosing your moment and using a toy if that's what you prefer.


Since they first appeared on the market, sex toys have evolved enormously and today many of them are waterproof. Shower gold toy — no need to choose anymore… Thank goodness for technology! And the best part is that the running water will perfectly mask the slight noise of your pleasure companion!


If that's not really your thing, you can also have fun with your hands or the shower head!



And what about you — what are your "tricks" for not giving up on your pleasure when the timing isn't quite right? 


Céline

Céline


Hi, I'm Céline! I'm a sexologist and writer for Passage du Désir. Holding a university diploma in Sexology, sexual medicine and sex therapy, I share a wealth of tips to spice up your moments together or solo and guide you towards a fulfilling sex life. 💜

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