Whether you've been thinking about it for a while or you're suddenly struck by an impulse, you're finally going to take the plunge: buying your first sex toy.
Long, short, pink, black, vibrating, non-vibrating, connected, prices ranging from one extreme to the other… Not easy to find your way around, is it? And yet it's an important purchase. For your new first sex toy to become your best friend, it's better not to leave this purchase to chance.
So we're going to help you see things a little more clearly in the wonderful, but sometimes bewildering, world of sex toys!
What for?
For pleasure! Yes, of course, but it's not quite that simple. There are as many pleasures as there are people, so the idea isn't to grab the "best-seller" but rather to ask yourself what you're looking for.
Which first sex toy should you choose?
Would you like to amplify your pleasure and sensations?
Focus on the most well-known erogenous zones, or the ones you already prefer: the clitoris (with a vibrating or suction external stimulator), vaginal stimulation (vibrating or non-vibrating internal sex toys), stimulation of the penis or glans (with a masturbation sleeve or a vibrating masturbator)
Are you looking to explore and get to know your body better?
Opt for vaginal sex toys to discover your G-spot (short, curved and firm sex toys) and your Deep Spot (longer sex toys), or even your Prostate (vibrating or non-vibrating prostate stimulators).
Want to spice things up as a couple?
Discover sex toys that stimulate both partners at the same time and share the pleasure: vibrating cockrings, connected sex toys with a remote control or smartphone, small sex toys that fit in the palm of your hand, strap-on harnesses to switch roles…
And what about budget?
There are as many sex toys as there are price points: at Passage du Désir, we offer toys from €9.90 to €250, so there's something for everyone! To work out your budget, take into account:
- Performance and materials: be aware that a £10 sex toy won't be as powerful or innovative as one with more advanced technology (and therefore a higher price). The finish and features of the product will differ depending on your toy's price range: vibration quality if applicable, noise, ergonomics, softness of the silicone or ABS plastic, warranties, waterproof, rechargeable or battery-powered sex toys, etc… All these factors affect the price of the sex toy.
- The little extras: we often forget to think about the small "add-ons". The ones that will, in time, make your investment more worthwhile: a rechargeable sex toy, for example, will save you money on batteries and come with a longer warranty. When purchasing, budget for a little lube and a cleaner suited to your toy!
And most importantly, do you like it?
Realistic or modern minimalist design? Fluorescent pink or matt black? It might seem trivial, and yet a sex toy you find ugly or intimidating will stay in your bedside drawer… Because it's going to venture very close to your most intimate areas, your sex toy must appeal to you, put you at ease and make you feel confident.
Beyond its technical specifications, its appearance is essential — so start by asking yourself whether you like your sex toy and whether you can picture yourself using it!
Have fun and see you soon! 💜
Sophie
Hi, I'm Sophie! I've been writing articles about sexuality and relationships for 4 years, and I'm also a consultant for YesForLov. I hope this knowledge will help me answer the questions you have about sexuality!
Sophie
Hi, I'm Sophie! I've been writing articles about sexuality and relationships for four years, and I'm also a consultant for YesForLov. I hope what I've learnt will help me answer your questions about sexuality!
