How to live well as a single? 10 tips to thrive solo

Hear ye, hear ye my marshmallows, did the title catch you? Perfect. We are going to directly deconstruct the preconceived idea that single = loneliness TO BEGIN.

The definition as found on the internet:

nm: State of a person of marriageable age who is not married and has never been married. 

Ok, do you feel like shooting yourself? Wait a bit before launching La Traviata and turning on the gas. We will review all that and establish 10 beautiful things created by the sacrosanct singleness.

1. Define your living space: your personal sanctuary

No matter the ergonomics of your home, the important thing is to create areas that resemble you:

 In a shared apartment: A cozy office corner, shelves just for you, established rules that provide comfort

 At your parents' home: A room redesigned with your codes and a dialogue that allows a form of freedom 

 In a studio: A modular decor that evolves with your desires

The options are as varied as the number of humans on Earth, you'll forgive me for not elaborating ;)

 The +: Establish rituals that mark your territory (breakfast in the sun, yoga session in front of the window...). These little anchors transform any place into your space.

2. Deep friendship: building your chosen circle

Singleness offers a unique opportunity to cultivate authentic relationships:

Organize theme nights (blind test, board games, creative workshops, sports sessions, etc.)

• Launch collective projects (an urban garden, a group blog, an ethical AI... etc.)

  Create rituals among friends (Sunday brunch, monthly walk, morning swim - for the luckiest ones)

 Tips : Set up a WhatsApp, Messenger, or long-distance "Let's organize" group to easily plan spontaneous activities.

3. The luxury of positive selfishness: embracing your desires

Take advantage of this period to:

Say yes without consulting: weekend getaway, discovery restaurant

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Say no without feeling guilty: canceled evening, digital disconnection

• Change your mind: switch from a movie night to a city outing

Exercise: Keep a journal of your "current desires" and check off at least one per week.

4. Rituals that feel good: daily little happiness

Create your own moments of grace:

• Morning coffee while listening to your favorite podcast

• Evening walk to disconnect

• Sunday bath with music and candle

Variant: Establish a weekly "date with yourself" (exhibition, solo cinema, a terrace alone...).

5. Travel and outings: freedom in practice

How to take advantage of your flexibility:

• Solo travel: start with a micro-adventure (1 night in a hostel)

• Cultural outings: subscribe to newsletters from your city

• Solo dinners: choose friendly counters or terraces

Tips tips: Create a "I want to..." list with outing ideas for inspiration days.

6. Light love life: each person their own style

Find your balance:

• Flirt without pressure: dating apps in discovery mode

• Love break: focus on oneself for a few months

• Sex-friend: if it's clear and accepted by both sides

Repetition, there are as many relational models as there are humans on Earth. This list is obviously not exhaustive.

TO AVOID (for all humans on Earth): Forcing yourself to date someone just out of fear of loneliness.

7. Personal projects: the energy of freedom  

Capitalize on your availability:

•  Training: MOOC in the evening, workshop on the weekend

•  Creation: blog, podcast, crafts

•  Sport: prepare a challenge (race, hike)

 Method: The technique of small steps - 30 minutes a day on your project.

8. The virtuous circle: surround yourself with good vibes  

Filter your relationships:

•  Boosters: those who uplift you

•  Toxics: to gradually limit

•  New connections: join Meetup groups

 Action: Make a list of the 5 people who make you feel good and plan a contact with each of them this month.

9. Embraced solo pleasures: an art of living  

Reclaim yourself:

•  Dining alone: sit at the bar for more conviviality

•  Going to the movies alone: choose daytime screenings for a different ambiance

•  Solo travel: start with an easy European capital or if your language skills aren't completely "fluent", a domestic getaway

10. The winning mindset: singleness = full of life  

Change your perspective:

•  It's not: "I am alone"

•  But: "I am free to..."

•  It's not: "Nobody loves me"

•  But: "I love myself and I choose who I love"

 Affirmation : "My singleness is a rich and necessary period for my personal growth."

Living single is having the luxury of:

• Discovering oneself without filters

• Building chosen relationships

• Exploring deep desires

Your mission if you choose to accept it:

1. Choose 2 tips to apply this month

2. Note 3 things you love about being single

3. Share this article with a single friend!